so today i was around probably the flirtiest guy i've ever met. he poked my butt (which i immediately reprimanded him for), dry-humped some other girl he knows, hit on another girl that we know, and kept making flirty comments to me and a few to another girl. and the thing is, he does this all in the name of "humor". he finds it "funny" and makes people laugh. he's a goofy guy, ya know.....but that doesn't give him a license to treat us liek that. but anyway

the weird thing is, he's always talking about his gf. and in good ways

i told my fiance about this guy and my fiance is TICKED. i tried to make my fiance less angry by saying "but he was only joking with us. he also was talking about his gf. so apparantly he has no intention of actually going anywhere with us if he openly talks about his gf and postively"

but my fiance said "that's exactly it! perverted guys like him USE talk of girlfriends and crap like that to make themselves look trustworthy and sweet. and then when the moment's right, they try a hook up. i know jackasses like that"

i just wanted to know what yall thought of my fiance's comment. do guys really do that? the bad ones, that is. i know the good guys would never do things like that.  

but as for the jerks.....do they use their girlfriend as a way to attempt manipulating other girls into thinking he's trustworthy and stuff?

it kinda makes sense when i think about this guy i knew. when he wanted to cheat on his gf, he would tell the girl he was wanting to cheat with that he and his gf broke up, were breaking up, were having problems, and stuff like that as well as flattering them with things like "i've liked you for a long time" and "i'll break up with her for you" and then guess what. if the girls fall for it, he uses them and then doesn't speak to them for weeks. he eventually got discovered by his gf and she broke up with him

so tell me your take on all of this

Post edited at 7:33 pm on Sep. 24, 2008 by Anonymous