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Replies: 18Last Post Sep. 27 2:32pm by Lulamae
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( Lulamae )


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I'm terrible. I feel terrible.

Let's say...I had cyber sex with a person a while ago. and I'm in a very close, very personal relationship...a relationship that has been going on for over 2 years. I told this guy the next day.

He was upset, but...he didn't want to talk about it. He told me how hurt he felt, how disappointed he is, how much he considers that to be cheating, but he never mentioned it again.

Then...two months later, he called me last night..completely drunk, sobbing about how I could do something like that to him, whether he means so little to me, how much he loves me...etc...

What can I do to make this okay again?


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noahjk


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yeah..youare...

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Minnick


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Considering "cyber-sex" isn't real, I don't see where it's a big deal. Just don't do it again

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grinzbie


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appologize...and change ur idea of cheating. That is if u really love him...that is so sad!!

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Permiacious

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YOU STUPID FUCKING BITCH

you should have told him lol

i think you need to become more of a cunt. i mean if you can't even cyber without feeling guilty, how are you gonna feel the morning after you had sex with your married dentist


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Change The World1990

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Cybering is kind of not cheating, it's not even real...

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something strong like a drug that gets me.

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Minnick


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Quote: from Permiacious at 4:47 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

YOU STUPID FUCKING BITCH

you should have told him lol

i think you need to become more of a cunt. i mean if you can't even cyber without feeling guilty, how are you gonna feel the morning after you had sex with your married dentist


Gee, I wonder which PBM you are

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Quote: from Permiacious at 1:47 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

YOU STUPID FUCKING BITCH

you should have told him lol

i think you need to become more of a cunt. i mean if you can't even cyber without feeling guilty, how are you gonna feel the morning after you had sex with your married dentist


that was supposed to be shouldn't

and omg i hate that i need to verify my email to edit posts


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EmmaJanex


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Hmpph..shit happens.

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because once they're gone you'll have nothing.

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Brawler


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with us guys, if you do something that hurts us we may never talk about it, but its always there waiting to come out when we're depressed. Believe me.

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You've got red on you.

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( Lulamae )


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Quote: from Minnick at 10:46 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Considering "cyber-sex" isn't real, I don't see where it's a big deal. Just don't do it again


That's what I would have thought, but he was extremely hurt by it...he thinks of it as emotional cheating. And he's been locking that away...drunk people are honest.

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Minnick


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Quote: from Lulamae at 4:49 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Quote: from Minnick at 10:46 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Considering "cyber-sex" isn't real, I don't see where it's a big deal. Just don't do it again

 
That's what I would have thought, but he was extremely hurt by it...he thinks of it as emotional cheating. And he's been locking that away...drunk people are honest.

Drunk people aren't honest, I don't believe that quote for a moment.

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Dear It's Bearsy Bitch, Happy Hanukkah! Or Merry Christmas

Love always, Adolf Hitler.


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Quote: from Lulamae at 1:49 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Quote: from Minnick at 10:46 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Considering "cyber-sex" isn't real, I don't see where it's a big deal. Just don't do it again

 
That's what I would have thought, but he was extremely hurt by it...he thinks of it as emotional cheating. And he's been locking that away...drunk people are honest.

oh god what a faggot

i think you should stop dating. men who do the whole dating things have too many emotions


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Quote: from Minnick at 10:51 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Quote: from Lulamae at 4:49 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Quote: from Minnick at 10:46 pm on Sep. 27, 2008

Considering "cyber-sex" isn't real, I don't see where it's a big deal. Just don't do it again
 
   
 That's what I would have thought, but he was extremely hurt by it...he thinks of it as emotional cheating. And he's been locking that away...drunk people are honest.

Drunk people aren't honest, I don't believe that quote for a moment.


Okay, let's say...he's an honest person who when drunk gets very...erm...open.


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Ask him if there's any way he thinks you can make up for it.

1:54 pm on Sep. 27, 2008
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