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It's in our DNA. It's an animal instinct. Some people can ignore it, but it's encoded in us.
------- I love you Mikey! March 17th 2007
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10:56 am on Oct. 1, 2008 | Joined: Sep. 2008 | Days Active: 150 Join to learn more about Chiefette Florida, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 5,859 | Points: 8,063
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Black American Dude
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Its that need of feeling needed. Like that need for food.
------- Remember Americans, all the other countries only wish they have dreams.
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i r sekz
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Humans are social creatures. And popularity is more of a desire to be the best, the alpha if you will.
------- Design By Humans
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Quote: from i r sekz at 7:11 pm on Oct. 1, 2008
Humans are social creatures. And popularity is more of a desire to be the best, the alpha if you will.
Yes, to ignore the desire for social greatness can result in...eh...social "rejection". I mean, humans are extremely social creatures, and it is encoded into our brains, to make a big attempt to gain excellence in society. I suppose meaning to mate would play a key role, males apperaing testosterone fueled, being "alpha" females appearing as extreme figures of beauty. Lets pretend this is a school situation. You've got the popular, loud football jock. Everyone respects him, cause they know that if they don't, they won't be accepted. Like I said, we're programed to respect the more higher social person. Its the exact same in the animal kingdom, if you think of it. The Gorillas, the Alpha male rules all, and noone messes with him, til its time to get a new one. Just like humans, We have presidents, and don't mess with them til a re-ellection. To do so, would make you an "outcast", just like the Gorillas, where when an alpha male is attacked, and wins, the challenger is cast out of the group. Humans are like Gorillas, and if you look at how they act, you'll find we act the same
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Quote: from Anonymous at 1:01 pm on Oct. 1, 2008
Quote: from i r sekz at 7:11 pm on Oct. 1, 2008
Humans are social creatures. And popularity is more of a desire to be the best, the alpha if you will.
Yes, to ignore the desire for social greatness can result in...eh...social "rejection". I mean, humans are extremely social creatures, and it is encoded into our brains, to make a big attempt to gain excellence in society. I suppose meaning to mate would play a key role, males apperaing testosterone fueled, being "alpha" females appearing as extreme figures of beauty. Lets pretend this is a school situation. You've got the popular, loud football jock. Everyone respects him, cause they know that if they don't, they won't be accepted. Like I said, we're programed to respect the more higher social person. Its the exact same in the animal kingdom, if you think of it. The Gorillas, the Alpha male rules all, and noone messes with him, til its time to get a new one. Just like humans, We have presidents, and don't mess with them til a re-ellection. To do so, would make you an "outcast", just like the Gorillas, where when an alpha male is attacked, and wins, the challenger is cast out of the group. Humans are like Gorillas, and if you look at how they act, you'll find we act the same 
But, I mean, what gives you that instinct? Why would we have it if it didn't have a purpose? If you think about it, it's all about mating. People generally get the the instincts they have to do things because it will help them reproduce. Animals too. Instincts are nothing more then how to survive.
------- all the days were a sun-drenched haze while the salt spray crusted on the windowpanes...
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nikki
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Compassion. And familiarity - we sympathise with the people we are similar to.
------- oh, baby it's a wild word, and it's hard to get by just upon a smile be the change you wish to see in the world
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