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I currently work at Quizno's, I start my new job at a Nursing Home on Monday, I told my Quizno's boss I can only work 10am-2pm on days he wants me to work, because my Nursing Home job is 2:45pm-11:00pm. Now I have a boyfriend, he works random hours, depending on the day. I want to quit my job at Quizno's after this weekend because I will hardly get to see my boyfriend, I have 2 days off a week from the Nursing Home, and the days I work, I wont be able to see him at all unless I get to his house at midnight and stay the night, but my parents wont allow this. My curfew is 1:00 AM, and my boyfriend lives an hour away so I have to leave at midnight to get home at 1. (I am 20, he is 23.) They say its because I'm the oldest and they need to use me as an example and my sister will want to sleep at her boyfriends if I can sleep at my boyfriend's (her and her boyfriend are both 18, and in college).
I tried explaining that me and my sister are different and that we can have different rules, but my parents are going to have different rules for different kids, they have not met my boyfriend yet, but once they do I am hoping they change their minds. I want to make this relationship work, but I fear it won't because we will hardly get to see each other, this is a new relationship too. Short Version:
I want to sleep over at my boyfriend's house, but my parents won't let me, because my sister and I need to have the same rules even though I am 2 years older than her, me and my boyfriend are 20 an 23, he has his own house, the only way I can spend a decent amount of time with him is to sleep over at his house, he lives an hour away, I work until 11 at night. How do you think I can convince my parents to let me sleep over at my boyfriend's? Post edited at 12:50 am on Nov. 8, 2008 by misssmadejavuu
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move in with him
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move in with him
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ur not a little girl anymore... ur 18+ its time to wear the big girl shoes... what ur parents say dont mean shit anymore
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by the way my charmander is so much suter then yours! lol
jk fool, lol, lmao, rofl,
d-gaf bitches!
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Have a mature discussion with them, and how you're grown up and can make these decisions yourself, and that they're going to have to restrict your sister themselves. It's their job to keep her in line, not yours, you shouldn't be limited because your sister is younger then you. Be calm and prepared for this discussion, make it so it's like she's talking to someone their age. Explain that your boyfriend means a lot to you and you need this freedom to make it work. Just be prepared with what you're going to say. Edit: Oh, a week huh? Might be a bit trickier lol, well explain that you really need this relationship to work right now because it's a nice stress reliever, I'm sure it is. Post edited at 12:54 am on Nov. 8, 2008 by Niick
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Quote: from HEAD at 12:53 am on Nov. 8, 2008
 by the way my charmander is so much suter then yours! lol
jk fool, lol, lmao, rofl,
d-gaf bitches!
Shut the fuck up you blithering idiot.
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Quote: from littlenicky40 at 12:53 am on Nov. 8, 2008
Have a mature discussion with them, and how you're grown up and can make these decisions yourself, and that they're going to have to restrict your sister themselves. It's their job to keep her in line, not yours, you shouldn't be limited because your sister is younger then you. Be calm and prepared for this discussion, make it so it's like she's talking to someone their age. Explain that your boyfriend means a lot to you and you need this freedom to make it work. Just be prepared with what you're going to say. Edit: Oh, a week huh? Might be a bit trickier lol, well explain that you really need this relationship to work right now because it's a nice stress reliever, I'm sure it is.
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( misssmadejavuu )
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Quote: from littlenicky40 at 12:53 am on Nov. 8, 2008
Have a mature discussion with them, and how you're grown up and can make these decisions yourself, and that they're going to have to restrict your sister themselves. It's their job to keep her in line, not yours, you shouldn't be limited because your sister is younger then you. Be calm and prepared for this discussion, make it so it's like she's talking to someone their age. Explain that your boyfriend means a lot to you and you need this freedom to make it work. Just be prepared with what you're going to say.
I've tried having a mature discussion with them, it dosen't work, I get treated like a child.
And I know the main thing is because my sister will bitch that it's not fair to her.
But life isn't fair.
We are different people, and I know my parents expect more from her.
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