Understand and accept that life can be tough and is tough on everyone, so it's not just you who feels victimised. Most importantly, EMBRACE being single. I too, haven't had all the best luck in love, but when I have been in a relationship, I often just wish I was single again. Embrace the freedom of being an independent women, free to do whatever you like. You don't need a man to be whole. You are perfect just the way you are. The only guys who are worth your tears and the ones that don't make you cry at all.
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