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ex wants to be friends...i'm worried about wanting more
Replies: 6 — Last Post Nov. 6, 2008 1:27am by DrummerDude2009
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I dated a girl who is a senior in hs.  I am in my second year of college.  She is 18 i'm 20.  She is really immature sometimes and I just realized she enjoyed the chase, than when she had me I was like nothing, and she hung out with her ex bfs.  SO i ended things because it was the right thing to do.  She is the first girl i've gotten physical with.  But even though we broke up she wants to be friends, and she wants to hang out.  I am worried about hanging out because I know i'll want to kiss her, or makeout with her, and I know that I can't date her because I just didn't like how she hung with her ex's and her and I were different.  So what do i do?

Do I avoid her? DO i just say i'm worried about me wanting to kiss you idk.  

1:08 am on Nov. 6, 2008
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You will want more. Forget about it.

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Quote: from xoallixs0n at 8:09 pm on Nov. 6, 2008
You will want more. Forget about it.

This.

If you KNOW you have an attraction to her, and you KNOW she'll most likely treat you like shit again, then don't do it.

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Tell her that although u can be friends...ul need sometime.

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Yep, cease all contact. Really. When i was BIG TIME betrayed by my "friends", i was truly hurt. Anything that reminded me of them made it worse and i chased it and wanted to come back to the old ways. Its been a few weeks and i feel much better by ceasing all contact with them or having anything that reminds me of them.

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If your attracted to her it is something that you are not going to be able to control. I say give it a try and see how things go. Assert self control over yourself and you should be just fine. If you find the urges too strong then you do have the option to walk away.

Post edited at 1:15 am on Nov. 6, 2008 by Gabriel Gray

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man i dated a girl off and on for 8 yrs and she did the same thing that this one did to u.  Every time we tried to continue being friends and we would always end up getting back together cause we thought we could control the feelings we had 4 eachother . it does not work that way man. dont hang out with her.

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