To make a long story short, my girlfriend told me that she has a crush on a boy at her school (she's still in high school, I'm a freshman in college).

She got defensive and told me that it's normal and that I'm just a "loser" and a "homosexual" for not looking at any other girls the way I look at her.

I just wanted to know your thoughts. Is this normal? Should I be worried? Should we talk about it more?

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promise you; I'll wait till then in Heaven, I promise you.

Sounds like she's feeling guilty of something...I say dump her and get someone who likes you and doesn't crush around for others }:]

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and i dont think its good that she has a crush on someone else since you two have been going out for a year and four months!!1

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the truth Is you could slit my throat And with my one
last gasping breath I'd apologize for bleeding on your shirt

But if actual feelings get involved I don't think that's normal... or a good thing. Sure you can care about somebody as a friend, but going so far to call it a "crush" which I thought implied feelings, is a bit weird to me.

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"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love,
listens but doesn't believe,
and leaves before she is left"
-Marilyn Monroe

My advice would be to definitely sit her down and talk to her to see what's up.  Maybe because she's being defensive she's not telling you how she's truly feeling about your two's relationship.  Maybe she's looking around for a new guy.  Maybe not.  Communication is the key and I feel that if you talk it out with her you both will come to a conclusion, and then you can work it out from there.  Don't assume the worst though, this could all be harmless.  Anyway, sit her down, ask her what is going on, and if something is wrong, etc.  I hope all goes well and I wish you the best of luck!

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I was grateful, too, that she at least confessed to me that she has a crush on someone. It's not exactly a comforting subject, but at least she is being more open with me.

She does have a flirting problem, I believe. But she told me that she has no idea why she like this guy. She told me that he's not good looking and annoying, and he has a girlfriend. She said he's really funny.

I know nothing will happen. My main concern was her telling me that it's normal to develop feelings for other people when you're in a relationship. It is impossible for me to think of someone higher than her. No one comes close.

She's told me that she likes other boys. She told me that she still has feelings for her best friend. She's told me that she doesn't think she loves me. It's hard to hear that, naturally, especially when she says to me "I love you the most." It's just not normal, and I don't understand how she thinks it is.

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I will meet you in the Next Life, I promise you; Where we can be together, I
promise you; I'll wait till then in Heaven, I promise you.

I'm engaged, but there's a guy, in my sights, that I flirt with. He's cute. But I couldn't do anything more than flirt with him, or merely like him. I don't love him. I love my baby. :)

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