So the note says that if i use his pots I'm to clean them straight away instead of leaving them in the sink for "day on end" or not use them. And when he uses the sink he has to clean it.

That I'm not to leave dirty pans and dishes in the sink because he has to take them out and then clean the sink.

And I'm to leave the kitchen as I found it - wash down counters, table and put stuff away.

Now this pisses me off because my total kitchen cutlery consists of a knife and fork and spoon, a plate a cereal bowl and a frying pan. I borrow one of his big pots to cook spaghetti in. I dont have the money to buy my own pots.

Secondly he wasn't man enough to say it to my face.

And thirdly he keeps shoving stuff in my tiny little shelf - my beer, my kitchen roll, my breakfast cereal,etc. So what if its on the counter?

He also has a tv in our flat and doesn't have a tv license. That pisses me off, b/c the fine is like 500 euros.

Hes constantly banging around after midnight, keeping me awake.

He keeps putting his food in my already over packed shelf in the fridge.

And once he even came back and demanded to use the oven when I was preheating it.

So, he writes a note, making out Im the difficult one to live with when all I do is leave stuff in the sink and on the counter...

So far I left the note where I found it, seemingly unread. My dishes are still in the sink and the kiutchen roll is on the counter.

And thats the way its gonna stay until he says something to my face and I get to take him to town.

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Punctured bicycle on a hillside, desolate,
Could nature make a man of me yet?

So the note says that if i use his pots I'm to clean them straight away instead of leaving them in the sink for "day on end" or not use them. And when he uses the sink he has to clean it.

    Sounds like you should clean up after yourself.

That I'm not to leave dirty pans and dishes in the sink because he has to take them out and then clean the sink.

    Again, clean up after yourself

And I'm to leave the kitchen as I found it - wash down counters, table and put stuff away.

    As much to your benefit as his...clean up after yourself

Now this pisses me off because my total kitchen cutlery consists of a knife and fork and spoon, a plate a cereal bowl and a frying pan. I borrow one of his big pots to cook spaghetti in. I dont have the money to buy my own pots.

    You lack of kitchen ware is not his problem.  If you are going to use his stuff ask him and take care of it.  Your lack of money is not his problem.  

Secondly he wasn't man enough to say it to my face.

    Agree....should have sat down with you and discussed it rationally and come to an agreement.  Chicken shit!

And thirdly he keeps shoving stuff in my tiny little shelf - my beer, my kitchen roll, my breakfast cereal,etc. So what if its on the counter?

    Once bad habits are allowed to get out of hand a kitchen becomes a haven for pests like roaches, ants and rodents.  Keep it clean.

He also has a tv in our flat and doesn't have a tv license. That pisses me off, b/c the fine is like 500 euros.

    It's his TV and not your concern.

Hes constantly banging around after midnight, keeping me awake.

    Talk to him about it.  Don't just complain to everyone else.  Not much different than him writing you a note.

He keeps putting his food in my already over packed shelf in the fridge.

    Talk to him about it.

And once he even came back and demanded to use the oven when I was preheating it.

    Discuss it with him.  Don't just bitch about it.

So, he writes a note, making out Im the difficult one to live with when all I do is leave stuff in the sink and on the counter...

    Discuss it with him maturely and rationally.

 
So far I left the note where I found it, seemingly unread. My dishes are still in the sink and the kiutchen roll is on the counter.

    Two bullheads that egos are competing with each other.

And thats the way its gonna stay until he says something to my face and I get to take him to town.

    One of you needs to be the mature one.