LiveWire Network Peer Answers Peer Support Teen Forums Tech Forums College Forums 416 users online 221836 members 94 active today Advertise Here Sign In
TeenCollegeTechPhotos | Quizzes | LiveSecret | Memberlist | Dictionary | News | FAQ
Member Spotlight
majorwolf
Music: mcr,3 days grace,franz ferdinand,gnarls...
Mood: Tired
You have 1 new message.
Emergency Help
Until you sign up you can't do much. Yes, it's free.

Sign Up Now
Membername:
Password:
Already have an account?
► Invite Friends
► Active Members
► Groups
► Contests
Moderators
2 online / 35 MPM
Fresh Topics
  LiveWire / College Forums / College Depression & Emotional Imbalance / Viewing Topic

I don't know how to deal
Replies: 7 — Last Post Oct. 27, 2008 7:44pm by smurflikepebbles
Welcome to LiveWire!
We're Stronger Together. 		Join the Community
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite
Web Resources: Suicide Myths Dispelled, Suicide Information
USA Suicide Hotline: 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
( jonny5 )


Dairy Product Addict 		Reply
I'm a freshman and have been in a very tough long distance relationship. Last night she broke up with me over a text message. I've been severely depressed for 3 years and suicidal for months. I went out with her for a year. She was the first and only girl i ever had sex with. I'm losing it right now. I just want to die.
11:50 am on Oct. 25, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2005 | Days Active: 664
Join to learn more about jonny5 Georgia, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 3,509 | Points: 10,425
LiveWire Humor
xsnortingxashesx


Visionary
Patron 		Reply
Look, I know it sounds horribly corny, but this will pass. She may have been your first, but you don't want to be with a person who doesn't love you back.

-------
I read the body count out of the paper
And now it's written all over my face
11:51 am on Oct. 25, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2007 | Days Active: 340
Join to learn more about xsnortingxashesx Somalia | Asexual Female | Posts: 5,287 | Points: 8,353
Lord Cat


Wealthy Hobo
Patron 		Reply
Sorry but all i can say is shes weak she can't even dump someone right like come on by text thats just cowardly,Oi tell her Lord Cat says shes a cowered. Now!

-------
The linux command line is like windows DOS
on acid with a credit card in los-vegas ,it can do anything,
11:53 am on Oct. 25, 2008 | Joined: Sep. 2008 | Days Active: 203
Join to learn more about Lord Cat Ireland | Label Free Male | Posts: 3,198 | Points: 5,371
Duke

Dairy Product Addict 		Reply
Get in touch with KyleK14, you guys can compare notes and work it out together. Dying over some teen romance angst smacks of drama queen, don't you think? It happens, it sucks; but, life goes on unless you're a real pussy.
11:53 am on Oct. 25, 2008 | Joined: Aug. 2007 | Days Active: 176
Join to learn more about Duke Illinois, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 5,525 | Points: 7,163
Go Steph Go


Enlightened One
Patron 		Reply
You don't need a girlfriend who breaks up over text.  That's really low and childish.  Have you seen a psychiatrist or therapist?  Your college probably has one that you can talk to.  Don't do anything to harm yourself please.  Have a good cry and then try to forget about it.  I know it's SO hard but you'll get through it.  I really recommend a therapist.  Even through right now you want to die think about the future where you will be happy.  

Post edited at 11:54 am on Oct. 25, 2008 by Go Steph Go

-------
Tensions in our lives that are destroying our minds
Unite themselves together to make our consciousness blind
Conditioned to self-interest with emotions locked away
If that's what they call normal I'd rather be insane

11:53 am on Oct. 25, 2008 | Joined: June 2007 | Days Active: 605
Join to learn more about Go Steph Go Maryland, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 5,766 | Points: 14,041
XxPaperFlowersxX


Connoisseur
Patron 		Reply
Honey I'm sorry. I know how you feel. But time will make the pain ease. I'm not going to lie to you and say you'll stop hurting because in a way you always will but it won't be as bad. You'll move on. Don't worry you'll find someone else. All this sadness isn't worth someone who doesn't love you back. I'm sorry again though.

-------
I know what its like when memories make you wince & love
letters are like obituaries,& photo albums are books of
the dead. I need no reminders I'll forget the past and lay
it to rest. [but I loved you]"
11:58 am on Oct. 25, 2008 | Joined: Feb. 2007 | Days Active: 245
Join to learn more about XxPaperFlowersxX North Carolina, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 2,386 | Points: 6,955
lonelyguy


Dairy Product Addict 		Reply
You are far too young to understand what it means to be in a relationship.  I'm 20 and I am too young and immature to be in a serious relationship.  You were so obsessed with her, because she was your first.  It will be difficult getting over he, but time will pass and you will find another.

Whatever you do, don't sink yourself so emotionally into every girl that comes your way,  Myself and a lot of people around me have caused themselves so much pain, because we jump into relationships and let ourselves become obsessed with someone.  

That is why it hurts so much for you.  You thought you had found the love of your life, but trust me when I say, your first is never your only.  There will be others, you need to get out there and find them.

-------
life rarely makes any sense.

12:12 pm on Oct. 25, 2008 | Joined: May 2006 | Days Active: 135
Join to learn more about lonelyguy California, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 192 | Points: 1,607
smurflikepebbles


Personal Assistant 		Reply
i know it sucks...but it happens to everyone. Your in college dude, you have so much stuff ahead of you that will make this situation look insignificant. Nobody likes losing the first person they have had sex with-NOBODY. I dont know anyone who is still with the person they lost it to. Now its time for you to pick yourself up-believe that its for the better because now you have college girls to chase after. Its all part of growing up. Chances are (and im only guessing) that you want to die because you considered her part of you-and now its gone. If anything this should make you stronger as a person. Your still the same person you have always been-you just have more freedom to do what you want. just for a second try and forget about her, about anything that has ever happened between you two. (just for 10 seconds) and just look outside-at the people. there are millions of people out there-people that can make you happy again. people that can make you forget everything that has ever made you mad/sad/ect. a stranger is just a friend that you haven't met yet. Some-more than a friend. I know girls can suck sometimes (im a girl) and I apologize for all of the shit that we put you guys through-but if she loved you half as much as you do her-then she would have at least had the decency to call you instead of text messaging you. A person like that (in my opinion) isnt worth the effort to be depressed over. I'd save it for someone that i loved but died. Now that's depressing.

-------
"Learning how to operate a soul figures to take time" ~Timothy Leary
7:44 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2008 | Days Active: 7
Join to learn more about smurflikepebbles California, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 121 | Points: 192
Single page for this topic Email Print Favorite

Quick Reply

You are signed in as our guest.

Looking for something else?
 

  LiveWire / College Forums / College Depression & Emotional Imbalance / Viewing Topic

© 2000-2009 LiveWire Peer Support Network
Custom Web Hosting | Teen Advice | Peer Support