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And what IF I really am in love with her? It could ruin my life.
Replies: 12 — Last Post Oct. 25, 2008 9:22pm by charmgirl
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What if I really am in love with her? I can't stand the way I feel about her. Its too hard, because she doesn't like me back. So what do I do? Its easier just to say that I am not in love with her. Because real "LOVE" only comes once in a lifetime, right? So IF this were it, and IF I said I was in love with her.. I'd be missing out on love.

This might not make any sense...

She doesnt like me back. I might be in love with her. But I always say I'm not. Because If I really am in love with her.... Then... It only comes once in a lifetime. So I'd be missing out on true happiness. Everybody portrays "love" to be eternal happiness.
So.. If I'm in love with her, Im damned, right?

9:05 pm on Oct. 25, 2008
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real love definitely does not come once in a lifetime.

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in a odd way i know exactly what ur saying lol

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Well first off, you have a crazy idea about how love works....it doesnt just come once in a lifetime....

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Quote: from innocenteyes at 12:06 am on Oct. 26, 2008
in a odd way i know exactly what ur saying lol
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Quote: from innocenteyes at 9:06 pm on Oct. 25, 2008
in a odd way i know exactly what ur saying lol

I did too lol

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why do you think real love only comes once in a lifetime?
when people say that there is one perfect person out there and one love and etc., thats all stupid sappy bullshit that has no relation to reality.

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you might not love anybody your entire life or you may love 100 people

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Uuugh love is ways messing up peoples normal lives and making them dream unrealistically. If she dosent like you back even after you have waited a while...then call her ur first love and maybe the first mistake ur heart made ( if shes mean to you )...

Im trying to do the same thing....if im in LOVE with my boyfriend...im in deep trouble :S

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hes saying that there is only one TRUE love in a lifetime and if this girl is his true love and its over then he's screwed

i know exactly what he means xD
coz there was this girl i loved for 3 years, still kinda do, but she never liked me back and ever since her ive liked other girls and even dated one, but never felt for them what i felt for that first girl.

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I feel the same way about a girl... still feel it... it HURTS!!

i mean before all this i'm just a geeky nerd who study and play alternately, i even swore an oath to never ever have a gf, or hav sex, or get married. the next day after that, i fell for a girl!! it's fucking painful and untreatable-------

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Quote: from innocenteyes at 9:14 pm on Oct. 25, 2008
hes saying that there is only one TRUE love in a lifetime and if this girl is his true love and its over then he's screwed

i know exactly what he means xD
coz there was this girl i loved for 3 years, still kinda do, but she never liked me back and ever since her ive liked other girls and even dated one, but never felt for them what i felt for that first girl.

Im a girl also. You pretty much got it. Ive never even been in a relationship with her though. We came very very close to being together though. And she always flirts. Wow I hate mixed signals.

9:16 pm on Oct. 25, 2008
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u really shouldnt say that.first love is not always real.its just a new feeling to your heart and probably a new experience.so the answer is in you only.find your way out of love.if theres any.jk theres a way dont worry really.hang out with friends.ive been once in your place buddy n i did the same.believe in yourself.
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