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So, was it rape?
Replies: 16 — Last Post Oct. 20, 2008 5:14pm by Anonymous
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So, last night, I took a bunch of drugs, and a friend came over. now we had sex, (we are both male) And I went to sleep. though i didnt really sleep. So, While i was sleeping, he started fucking me again. He didnt now I was awake. I know thats really fucked up, but I enjoyed it. we even gave a reach around. its weird. Like I feel like I was raped, But I liked it. Is it still rape?
3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
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Rape is forced sex....
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You cant rape the willing.

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no, it wasn't non-consensual.

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Quote: from LazySouthSideHyna at 6:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
You cant rape the willing.

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no it was not

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If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

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Quote: from LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

but tech, If i was really asleep, I couldnt decide. So like if u got drunk and soem guy took advantage of you, would it still be rape?

honestly, it doesnt bother me.

3:15 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
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no  lol  

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Quote: from LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

Rape has nothing to do with whether someone "likes it" or not.

The first time wasn't rape, as it was consensual.
The second time is a bit more ambiguous and probably wasn't rape, you were awake and never said anything, and that was proven with the reach around.

It wouldn't stand up well in court.

Post edited at 3:18 pm on Oct. 20, 2008 by Rastafarian

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Quote: from Rastafarian at 3:16 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
Quote: from LittleBombs at 3:14 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
If you liked it then no. Rape is when you don't want it or you tell them to stop but they won't.

Rape has nothing to do with whether someone "likes it" or not.

I also agree with this. If i was umm not me. I could say i was too afraid to let him know I was awake.


So he put him self in a bad situation.

3:18 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
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Quote: from LazySouthSideHyna at 3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
You cant rape the willing.

actuly u can ... even if  a minor is willing to have sex  and they do the other person raped them...even if both are minors, then they raped each other

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No

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Quote: from LazySouthSideHyna at 3:13 pm on Oct. 20, 2008
You cant rape the willing.

Haha this ^

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