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trusting birthcontrol
Replies: 16Last Post Sep. 22 10:27pm by steven7
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ok, i know a topic just came up alot like this but anyway. My girlfriend is on birthcontrol but still makes me wear a condom. It makes her feel more comfortable so i do it. But they suck, sometime i can't get there cuz they block so much sensation, even the "thin ones". so prettymuch, girls if your on birthcontrol, do you trust it and just pullout or use a condom no matter what. My ex girlfriend trusted the birthcontrol and it felt soo much better.

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The condom is just not for preganncy control,
What about STD's?
Would you really want to fuck off your life like that?

5:47 pm on Sep. 10, 2008
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My boyfriend and I use the pill+withdrawal method and it works fine.  I'm not horribly worried as I take mine when I'm supposed to, always.

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I still use both because I want my boyfriend to get tested for all STDs before I even think about doing it without.  And we're going to have to have a much more serious discussion about what actions are going to be taken if I get pregnant.  Also, I'm bad at taking pills the same hour everyday, therefore I don't trust them.

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Yeah I trust it when I'm on it, but I'm not on it right now, sadly.

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Seira Na Haiy


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Condoms protect against STDs so I'd still have them be used unless we were both tested... Tested regularly, too. Also, you shouldn't compare your current girlfriend to your ex. Instead, figure out why your girlfriend wants you to use a condom specifically. Some girls like the condoms because sex hurts less. You two should talk it out and try to find a good medium

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ok for all the STD talk, we are both clean. we know for sure tested and good, so thats not the worry. Oh and shes not on the pill, shes has that nuvaring thing

Post edited at 5:55 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 by steven7

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come on in need more responses, this is a hot topic with me and her. I need to know, excluding the STD issue because that is not a factor with us, would you trust your birthcontrol and pullout or stick with the condom anyway. (which i feel is a bit of paranoia)

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Seira Na Haiy


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Ask her why she wants the condom; if its a comfort issue or if she's just really worried about gettin pregnant. If she's really worried about getting pregnant ask her if she's be willing to try spermicidal foam/lube with no condom. If you do that, though, and she gets pregnant you better step up to the plate ;P

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yeah definately, i would, and i guess i better clarify comfort. not like it feels good but it comforts her t know its one more barrier against pergnancy

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Then deffinately mention the spermicidal thing and let her know you'll be there if she gets pregnant, even though its unlikely, and that you just want to find a way to make her comfortable but you both still enjoy yourselves.

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I'm on The Pill, and I don't even make him pull out. I don't think I make the wisest choices when it comes to sex though, so don't take my opinion as gold.

My boyfriend, on the other hand, has had sex with his ex's without a condom when they weren't on BC. He'd generally pull out. *Rolls eyes*

One of his friends has sex with a condom as his girlfriend isn't on The Pill. Too bad for them.

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try a Trojan Magnum if you're big enough. The problem isn't so much that the sensation was blocked for me, but i had trouble with actually getting kind of numb, like whne your foot goes to sleep from sitting on it and cutting off the circulation.... except it was my dick :p

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do you trust it and just pullout or use a condom no matter what.

I'm on my own contraceptive, not really a BC, but a foam. And I make the guy use a condom, no matter what, and he pulls out, by choice. Better safe than sorry. And he's never had problems with a condom restricting the pleasure.

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Talk to her find out what is up. Her being on a BC and you pulling out no condom is effective but that .1% chance she gets pregnant sucks seeing how its obvious kids arnt what you two are looking for. I am not sure what you can do to convince her really since im sure she knows the apparent effectiveness of her BC and she still does not trust it.

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