I don't think it's her fault, and when I try and point out that you can't actually help developing an eating disorder, I get flamed.

Your opinions?
Do you think people who develop eating disorders are 100% to blame for not eating in the first place?

Tell her to grow up and buy her a McDonalds.

Perhaps the negative attention will help... I know when I stopped eating everyone began telling me "you look really unhealthy, please eat" and that was more motivation to keep eating.

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Educators destroy your brain,
but you don't know, so why care?
Fagotto

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Disorders like this aren't even worth your time. It's another classic example of a mother cuddling society, embracing a disease / disorder that wasn't around a few hundred years ago.

Tell her to grow up and buy her a McDonalds.

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You should grow up and GTFO.

You can't help developing disorders of any kind.

I have bi-polar disorder, is it my fault?

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I started smoking when I was 12 because I thought it was cool,
now 5 years later I still smoke, is smoking still cool? No.

Majority of the time it's a cry for attention. Don't give it them, concentrate on your own life.

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Disorders like this aren't even worth your time. It's another classic example of a mother cuddling society, embracing a disease / disorder that wasn't around a few hundred years ago.

Tell her to grow up and buy her a McDonalds.

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I think that this kind of attitude is what causes these problems in the first place. When you see an anorexic fighting for her life, or not fighting which is usually the case- then you wonder why the fuck they aren't helping themselves. The point is they can't control it, nobody can- it is nothing to do with a case of growing up and i think it is a case of ignorance that you think like this. Trust me if you had anorexia you would feel differently.

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Love me, save me, please be kind...
For I know that love ain't blind!

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Disorders like this aren't even worth your time. It's another classic example of a mother cuddling society, embracing a disease / disorder that wasn't around a few hundred years ago.

Tell her to grow up and buy her a McDonalds.

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Some people have disorders that affect their eating that were around a few hundred years ago. They just weren't named. Think shit through before you sound like a dumbass. Many things may affect how much someone is eating. They could be nervous about something or just have severe anxiety(not fake) as some people get nervous very easily compared to others. When it lasts too long and isn't temporary, it gets considered an eating disorder.

its probally making her 10x worse

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Low self esteem is like driving through life with your hand brake on.