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I'm pregnant and yesterday
Replies: 19Last Post Sep. 17, 2008 11:49am by 1ofakind
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night i was about to tell the dad (my kinda bf...more like friends with benefits) that i was pregnant, but right as i went to say "i'm pregnant" he inturrupted me & told me he's leaving me for another girl, and that he's glad i didn't "get pregnant or anything" while we were together.  



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Sounds like a typical dramatic movie script

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sucks for him

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You need to tell him, and then tell his new GF. Because, he does still have to pay for everything... Well, unless you decide to get an abortion.

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Oh man, that must be really hard.  I'm sorry.  If you want to talk to me, just PM me and I'd be glad to try my best to help.  I'm a good listener.  :]

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Tsk tsk tsk...well, get suited up cuz it's gonna be one hell of a ride! :D

Have fun with it or you'll go crazy ^-^

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So why didn't you tell him right then? I would have corrected him and stuck it to him. You shouldn't have let him do that...he's going to be a dick now forever with your baby.

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cliche

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Tell him.

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i'm definitely not getting an abortion for the record.
but i'm not even sure if i want my kids to have him as a father because he's definitely not a good guy.

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You need to tell him - he's responsible to you and your unborn child, and you can't let him off the hook just because you don't want to tell him. It's hard, sure, but he has a duty as a father to this baby, and he deserves to know even if you plan on having an abortion.

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Well, did you tell him??

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you're screwed...

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tell him u have something very important to tell him and meet him in a place where he cant kick off and then tell him
he has responsibility's now and he cant not take the responsibility's.
And I'm glad you are not getting an abortion that is the worst thing in life to do :(

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Normally I think that it's important to give the father a say, but in the case where he's abusive or the relationship is unhealthy, I think that you have to put your safety and the safety of your child in front of "fairness" of him knowing.

If you've decided that he's not going to be a good influence in your life or not likely to be a healthy, quality father then it may honestly be best not to tell him at all, as even if you did, it sounds like you would be seeking full custody and no visitation rights for him.

Being a single mother is scary but certainly do-able. You may be better off forging that path for now.

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