You should have told him right there. He won't believe you now. You need to go to a doctor and get confirmation that you are pregnant to show him. Then you need to get him for child support if you are going to keep the baby. Medical expenses as well, even if you are giving the baby up. If you are choosing abortion. Make him pay for it.
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Quote: from decoyyydown at 12:58 pm on Sep. 15, 2008
i'm definitely not getting an abortion for the record. but i'm not even sure if i want my kids to have him as a father because he's definitely not a good guy.
You could at least make him pay child support. You'll probably need the help, kids are expensive.
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You should tell him. He might not believe you though, and might think you're just saying it to trap him. Tell him.
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Quote: from decoyyydown at 5:58 pm on Sep. 15, 2008
but i'm not even sure if i want my kids to have him as a father because he's definitely not a good guy.
Then you should have thought of that before sleeping with him. You need to tell him - he's the father and he has responsibilities, regardless of what you want, you owe it to your child.
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Well you really need to tell him that your preg. even if he is leaving you.
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i'm definitely not getting an abortion for the record. 
