I was on MSN to some guy in my class.
We got talking about, um... you know.
He got me to go on webcam.
We kept 'talking'.
He kept telling me to move the webcam down, and take my clothes off, and uh, originally it was just a joke, I was just messing him around..but I did.
He just saw it, dunno how graphical you can get on here, so I'll just say vagina.

Okay, I know I shouldn't have done it, but it's done now.

Like 2 days later, I was talking on MSN to his mate, and we got um... talking again. I was just messing him around again, telling him that yeah, I would let him do 'it'. Eventually he got pretty annoyed at me, and said he didn't want to anyway 'cause he had already seen me like that, and he wasn't the only one. This shook me up pretty bad, and I just kept denying it, and he mentioned words from the conversation that I had with the webcam guy. And he said someone took a picture of me on webcam, and he had seen it.

I don't know what to do, as I said it's shaking me up pretty bad, the picture's probably going to go around school, help.

(Please don't call me a whore, slut ect. I know I'm only 13 but you can't make me feel worse than I already do)

Sure you shouldn't have done that, but now you know better and hopefully you won't do anything like that again. What I also suggest is that you stop "talking" to these guys. Instead of talking about sexual things (you're 13 for goodness sake), talk about things that aren't even remotely close to that. Doing so will help prevent another embarrassment like this from occurring. Plus it'll also help you form a better reputation then you have right now.  

You need to be tough and go to school with the awareness that the picture has more than likely been shared with others. It's not going to be easy to deal with that, but not letting it get the best of you will help you in the long run. Toughen it out and like I said before, there will eventually be something else for everyone to gossip about.

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I love you!

There isn't much you can do but pretend it didn't happen. Just try to stay off of IM for a while, and don't send anymore pictures of yourself. Even when you are on webcam people can copy their screen with the stroke of a key. You are really really young to be doing this type of stuff. Try being a kid, you know? Build your friendships, and meet people who are the most nice and mature. Those are the people that are going to stick with you and become better people as you enter your later years of high school.

I went off on a tangent sorry. I think you will be fine. We all do embarrassing things in our youth. As I said: I've been there and stuff will blow over. Overall, just try to hold your head up high, be nice to people and move on.

Feel free to PM me or post here again if you have more questions or detail to add.

~Shaun

Post edited at 11:03 pm on Sep. 18, 2008 by wOlF

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I don't know, I think I am 70/40 on this issue. I always give it my 110%.