Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic OH SNAP! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post 2Drunk2Function Posted at 2:37 pm on July 2, 2008 Ok so my best friend is having a emotional break down. Her boyfriend like abused her and she wants some closure but i can't help her find that because she said she can only find that closure with the guy that abused her. but he is in jail. she still loves him though. i have like no clue what to do about it because thats all she says. she refuses to say anything else about it. Do you have any ideas on how to get her to stop crying?!

Replies HellHound Posted at 4:35 pm on July 2, 2008 *sigh*, this is something I don't understand. If someone hurt you (and they're not family), why would you want to see them for comfort? I understand seeing them for revenge but why for comfort? Anyways, to the question, I'd just let her cry away. She's probably not thinking straight so reasoning with her may or may not be worthwhile. "Is she in therapy at all?" - MissPrixy07 Therapy will most likely take some time for it to have a good effect. Personally, I'd say she's stupid. Someone abuses you and you stay with them. That's fine if you're staying with them out of fear. But being sad and wanting to be with them when they're away from you seems almost masochistic. If she's not masochistic, then she's likely stupid. MissPrixy07 Posted at 2:46 pm on July 2, 2008 I'm assuming that her parents and the police know. Is she in therapy at all? Can she visit him, and tell him how she feels, or something? Josephrizzo33647 Posted at 2:41 pm on July 2, 2008 ya let her cry stiicky iicky Posted at 2:38 pm on July 2, 2008 She'll cry herself out. Let her cry. All 4 previous replies displayed.