Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I have really low self esteem... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:55 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 I always see girls and I'm like "I totally wish I was her." I want to be beautiful and smart and have a good personality, I don't though. I'm not like...hideous. I'm like 5'1, 100lbs, I have some acne but not as much as I used to. I just don't know what to do. At my lowest point I was completely obsessed with this girl. I started wearing my hair like hers, talking and acting like her. This was a couple of years ago, but I still get that "I wish I was her..." I don't know what to do. How can I be happy with me?

Replies prsnltyquizaddict Posted at 6:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 i have extremely low self-esteem and i hate it, but i can't seem to change it very easily. it usually makes me hate myself because i'll accidently let an LSE comment slip out around my boyfriend and he gets upset about it and then i feel terrible because i unintentionally made him feel bad. raza301 Posted at 6:09 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 i bet your hotter then you think Anonymous Posted at 6:05 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from mcrfool at 6:05 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are.        I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Why whine then? It's hard to find people who DO like you for who you are. Don't take them for granted. I'm not whining. Shut the fuck up. mcrfool Posted at 6:05 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out with people who like you for who you are.     I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Why whine then? It's hard to find people who DO like you for who you are. Don't take them for granted. Anonymous Posted at 6:04 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 6:00 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are.        I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Then why care about looks? Looks mean shit. Be happy for who you are. I don't know. I feel inadequate. Latin Muscle Posted at 6:00 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out with people who like you for who you are.     I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Then why care about looks? Looks mean shit. Be happy for who you are. MystiqueBeauty16 Posted at 6:00 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Lol wow, I'm 5"1' and 101 pounds with some acne going away! I know I look horrible in that pic from my IB a year ago but I look a lot better now. I used to have horrible self-confidence until I started ignoring what other people thought or said about me, good or bad, started dressing nicer and taking better care of myself. Pampering goes a long way in self-confidence, especially in Girl world, trust me, i've been there, done that. runthespread Posted at 5:59 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 You just gotta realize what's best for you. You can copy someone else all the time because their look and what they do may not be what looks good for you. That just makes it worse. Anonymous Posted at 5:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are. I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. BigWill54 Posted at 5:57 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 just be yourself nothing wrong with u hell im 6'3 285lbs im overwait but i play football so it don't seem to bad but i never wish to be someone eles cause i like my life the way it is just be thankful for what and who u got Dont Notice Me Posted at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 .......sit in the mirror and find everything good about the reflection kay dee Posted at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 You're 5'1'' 100 lbs? Shut the hell up. acne's temporary. At least you're not morbidly obese. Latin Muscle Posted at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are. All 13 previous replies displayed.