Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Abuse Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post spencer012 Posted at 8:37 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 Ok there is this girl that I freaking love lets call her "C". She likes me but, I have a girlfriend, lets say her name is "R". She asked me out a while ago and she loves me more than she loves her own life and I only said yes to her because I kind of liked her but mostly I wanted someone that I could share my feelings with. Yes I am emo, yes I cut, yes I burn, but no, I don't do drugs. Both of them know that and are ok with it. So, I love this girl "C" but, because I'm goin out with "R" she decided to date this other guy. The other guy abuses her sexually but, she won't tell anyone and, where I live, no one cares except for me. She got fingered by him and broke up with him but now she likes another guy. She thinks he loves her so because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings, she told him she will do anything he wants. I told her that no one should treat her like that and that she should tell someone. She said if she tells someone then he will find out and tell everyone. I told her that if he really loved her then he would respect her decision to wait until marriage but she won't listen. What should I do?

Replies AcidSilence Posted at 8:42 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 Quote: from namefake3 at 8:38 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 lets say my name is "Q" dude just use fake names. we dont need intials, quotes, you telling us that they're fake. so im guessing your young? Try actually giving some advice for once. Anyway, I think she will just have to wait for it to hit or one day, and then she will realize she needs to get out of the relationship. Just keep talking to her as you are, and make sure she knows your there for her. Good luck. blufindr Posted at 8:41 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 Dump R, date C. phosphorescence Posted at 8:40 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 tell an adult you can trust. she needs someone to stand up for her, she sounds to young/immature to handle this on her own. trust me on this one :/ i wish someone would have helped me. namefake3 Posted at 8:38 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 lets say my name is "Q" dude just use fake names. we dont need intials, quotes, you telling us that they're fake. so im guessing your young? All 4 previous replies displayed.