Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My fucking dad Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Cutiepootie Posted at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 My dad wants me to be with him on christmas eve night but i live with my mom now and it will be my first christmas morning with my mom. My dad is pissed off and begin hateful...What should i do?

Replies TheAnswers Posted at 4:12 pm on Dec. 24, 2008 its sad to see so many naive replies in this thread i hope you havnt taken them in the last one by backporch is the only decent reply. put yourself in your dads shoes, him and your mum obviously have issues and thats probably alot harder on him than he makes it out to be to you, so ease up on the guy a bit. if anything your mother is just as much to blame for you being in this position, having a kid she and your dad should put their differences aside and work out a solution for your sake. you should talk to them both about how you feel, as lame as that may sound it will make you feel better, and they should both be mature enough to put their differences to the side for once to work something out to benifit you. Incubusity Posted at 11:05 am on Dec. 24, 2008 I'm sure you're dad feels neglected and perhaps jealous as well. Who can blame him? Look on his side, imagine spending Christmas Eve/Christmas without his daughter. Can you see how hurtful it may be? I think you should talk to him, even if he refuses to listen. Reassure him that you want to be there too, and that you love him as much as he loves you. I'm sure he will understand. Cutiepootie Posted at 6:57 am on Dec. 24, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:53 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.          That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?       I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.   And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.   I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.      My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too. And you said you want to spend christmas morning with your mom. Is it really too hard for you to spend the eve with the father and the next morning/day with your mom? What the fuck kind of ungrateful brat are you? I SAID I WANT TO SPEND CHRISTMAS NIGHT WIHT MY MOM BUT MY DAD WANTS ME TO SPEND IT WITH HHIM. emoly pqausch Posted at 4:58 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 ignore him. tell him to deal with it and you'll spend time with him later. bloodyXkisses Posted at 4:55 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from style is war at 6:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Mom > Dad. Always Agreed. sykexl Posted at 4:53 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.   That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?   I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.    And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.    I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.   My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too. And you said you want to spend christmas morning with your mom. Is it really too hard for you to spend the eve with the father and the next morning/day with your mom? What the fuck kind of ungrateful brat are you? BackPorch Posted at 4:52 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from BackPorch at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it.   GREAT ADVICE!!!! Thanks I have been in your exact position. =) Cutiepootie Posted at 4:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.       That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?    I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here. And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both. I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it. My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too. sykexl Posted at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.  That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day? I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here. And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both. I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it. Cutiepootie Posted at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from BackPorch at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it. GREAT ADVICE!!!!  Thanks BackPorch Posted at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it. Cutiepootie Posted at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.   That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day? I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here. DemonicRainbows Posted at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him it's time to be a big boy now. sykexl Posted at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it. That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day? Megan7 Posted at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Say that you will stay with your mom, unless if he man's up. Most recent 15 of 24 previous replies displayed.