Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Giving up on life.. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Total Destruction Posted at 8:51 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 I've lost my will to live and love now... My war against life is taking me to a point of utter annihilation.. I want some one to send me to hell with a greeter card for Lord Tenebrae. The most beautiful girl I have ever known hates me with a bitter passion and it hurts more than seeing your family die in front of you. Please some one help me before I rid myself from this world. My last wish is for her to forgive me for what I have placed upon her...the burden of my love..

Replies RubberTrees Posted at 6:24 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Though it may seem like an unemotional thing to say, things must get worse before they get better. Just try to make the best of your situation, and enjoy as much as you can. I'd like to state that if you're feeling suicidal, that you should call the suicide hotline [1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)], or find professional help. If you cannot find any professional help, tell your parents, a close friend(s), a close family member, or the school counselor. I'm sure they'd be more than willing to help you with anything. Also, don't do anything that you might regret. Try to think through everything as logically as you can. As for this girl, have you tried working it out? Perhaps she just needs some time to get over things, or she's just having a rough time and this is just her way of dealing with things. If anything, just try talking to her, apologizing (if necessary), and ask her what you can do to make everything better between you two. If, in the end, it does not work, remember that unrequited love always goes away with time. Again, as stated before, don't do anything harmful to yourself. If you still feel the need to talk, you can always PM me. S0LITUDE Posted at 9:16 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 First of all, please do not do anything that you  might regret! Do not act on your impulses. When we're depressed we tend to fall into a place where everything is hopeless and we don't see any way of happiness ever existing. We can't really believe that there's a solution to any problems because our eyes are closed. It happens to all of us. We say we have lost our will to live, like you said, but have we really? Think about it. Isn't there always some hope of things getting better? Sometimes we don't like to realize it because we're depressed but the truth is that we can always do something for our lives. The hope that things will get better is always there and that's because anything could happen and within that anything, there's the possibility of a good change. We can't stop loving because love is something that comes naturally. Sometimes our heart is hurt and we wish things wouldn't be the way they are. It takes more strength to hate than to love, the same way it takes more muscle to frown than to smile. We must love until the end. Perhaps this is bad but this is rather a philosophical matter. We can agree that loving someone causes them no harm and love is what we need to make this a better world. It sounds like you've hit the bottom of depression but I tell you there's always a way out. Some way or another you can always climb out of that hole. Have you realized that you're still alive? That you can still breathe? Do you think this is a coincidence? Of course not! If you're alive then this must be an opportunity for things to get better, please do not end it! Try to make things better. You can make a change. You can do it because you're a strong person whether you want to admit it or not. You are a human being who can do a lot. Nothing can stand against you. This is the way you must think in order to succeed. Because our thought eventually become actions and truths. If you feel sad then you will have sad actions that could be fatal so try to think positively. Think that you can actually get out of the spot you're in and then you will have a chance to do so. We ourselves must give us a chance. I can not say much about the rest of your post. You were rather vague there isn't much I can help you with because of that. But I hope that helped a bit. Please remember that there's always hope. Please do not rid yourself from this world. The world needs you. We all have a purpose here and to rid ourselves from this place would mean to disturb what is planned for us. People care about you although you might not feel like they do. It's because sometimes we're afraid to say how we feel and how much we care fro others. But I know that if you cease to exist people will miss you and people will want you back because I'm sure that people care for you! Do not attempt suicide. It is the worst thing you could ever do. Don't try it at all because there's still a lot of life in front of you. If you need to, you could seek professional help. That would definitely help you. Don't feel afraid to seek it. If you think I can help you with something else, feel free to send me a message. I'm here to help. lalacakes Posted at 8:55 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 No suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I think i spelt something in that wrong but lol. yeah life is like a roller coaster it has its ups and downs, things will get better for you.! I once thought of killing myself too. came very close to it. but then i came to my senses and thought about the people that really do love me and how i still have my whole life ahead of me. Sure every thing seems bad right now but you just have to stick it out and hang in there and things will get better, they did for me.! Justinc08 Posted at 8:55 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 All that over a girl? Come on man, no offense, but there's more to life. You have too much to live for. whips handcuffs Posted at 8:54 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 *hugs* it gets better. i promise, life moves on. heyRACH Posted at 8:52 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations snowcone200 Posted at 8:52 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations danndivision Posted at 8:52 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 dont end it by killing your self, it isnt the right way..talk to a professional OllyNZ Posted at 8:52 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 umm, talk to someone?? family? talk to this girl and find out why she hates you sorlag Posted at 8:52 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations Doghouse Posted at 8:51 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations All 11 previous replies displayed.