Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic This is pretty fucking wierd Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post blitzerdog Posted at 7:57 pm on July 4, 2009 I am a different person wherever I go and depending on the people I am with. Is this normal, or whats wrong with me? At home, I am super quiet. At work, I am quiet and kinda wierd. At school and with theater friends, I am outgoing, funny, and awesome. With my high school friends, I am basically stuck in the past based on how they think and used to treat me. Some days I'm super outgoing and fun, other times like now, I don't want to talk to anyone. What is wrong with me?

Replies cutie2 Posted at 5:34 am on July 5, 2009 You ARE always essentially 'you', y'know. I think it's pretty normal to behave differently depending on who you're with and where you are. I do it, for sure. It's great to be able to be outgoing when you're with friends. But when you're at home, there's no reason to run around making lively conversation and entertaining people, is there? We adapt our behaviour to the situation we're currently in. Each situation - home, work, school - requires different things from you, and gives you different feelings. So don't worry too much. I used to worry about it too, because I felt like I was several people, and each person was totally different. I couldn't figure out who I was - which one's really me. But they're all me, responding to various conditions. And sometimes I am moody and withdraw, and sometimes I am outgoing and excited. It is confusing, and it can be difficult if I say "yeah I'd love to come!" while I'm outgoing and then moody me has to deal with something she doesn't want to go to - but you're not alone and I don't think you're weird. SpRiNgS Posted at 8:06 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from blitzerdog at 8:03 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SpRiNgS at 8:00 pm on July 4, 2009 sounds like you wear different masks around different people to be honest. you get what i'm saying? This is about how you are around different people. some folks adapt or change to fit their surroundings. My brother is a real bitch at home for no reason but out with friends he's a happy man.    There doesnt seem to be anything wrong with you IMO. People just need time to themselves   Thats it right there, can I fix me to be one person all the time? idk to be honest thing is you want to be one person? I mean it might be hard to do that cause of how different you are with the different groups of people naturally you'll be different with your family than you are with your friends like i NEVER curse in front of my mom OR dad but in front of my friends we say fuck shit ass damn tittietwister all that blitzerdog Posted at 8:03 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SpRiNgS at 8:00 pm on July 4, 2009 sounds like you wear different masks around different people to be honest. you get what i'm saying? This is about how you are around different people. some folks adapt or change to fit their surroundings. My brother is a real bitch at home for no reason but out with friends he's a happy man. There doesnt seem to be anything wrong with you IMO. People just need time to themselves Thats it right there, can I fix me to be one person all the time? thatgirl9459 Posted at 8:02 pm on July 4, 2009 I'm the same way...I'm usually quiet and observing with some of my friends...At home I'm loud and can never shut up or I'm always in my room and my family only sees me like once or twice a day...With my other friends I'm loud and goof off and do the dumbest things... So I don't think you have a problem...you probably just feel differently with whoever you're with and their attitudes and personalities affect the way you act... Pebbles123 Posted at 8:02 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Bend Your Wings at 3:59 am on July 5, 2009 it just means you're more comfortable around your friends. Lol, this. SpRiNgS Posted at 8:00 pm on July 4, 2009 sounds like you wear different masks around different people to be honest. you get what i'm saying? This is about how you are around different people. some folks adapt or change to fit their surroundings. My brother is a real bitch at home for no reason but out with friends he's a happy man. There doesnt seem to be anything wrong with you IMO. People just need time to themselves alli wonderland Posted at 7:59 pm on July 4, 2009 it just means you're more comfortable around your friends. DaisyMontana Posted at 7:58 pm on July 4, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations sixguns Posted at 7:58 pm on July 4, 2009 im the same way nobody but u all know me this way All 9 previous replies displayed.