Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic what is this? like anxiety or a control issue? what??? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 11:55 pm on June 15, 2008 last saturday, my bf went to spend the night at a friend's. okay. then sunday afternoon i call him to hang out like we always do and he said we could this weekend but didn't answer. okay, maybe he wasn't home yet. i called probably 5 times between noon and 9 p.m. and he never answered. i was freaking out. i thought maybe something horrible had happened. (here's my problem so pay attention) i thought the worse immediately like a car accident, a robbery, or anything worse (i even almost considered avoidance, or cheating, but then i remembered who i was talking about). i always think the worst and it was driving me insane with worry, reason completely left behind me. is that like an anxiety issue??? idk, maybe a control issue too??? my sister sort of had it after a traumatizing experience, but that makes sense, i never had anything like that. but we're a lot alike in many ways (personality and even body frame/type) but then this weekend, i knew he was going to stay the night at a friend's and that we wouldn't hang out today and i was/am perfectly fine...is that like a control issue to you, i was fine cause i knew where he was? idk how else to explain it....any ideas? anyone else like this??? ....

Replies pumpkin475 Posted at 12:10 am on June 16, 2008 you're normal and you care Anonymous Posted at 12:01 am on June 16, 2008 Quote: from WetGirl at 11:58 pm on June 15, 2008 I think it is a control issue!! You wanted to know where he was and what is was doing. You don't seem to have a problem when you know where he is and what he is doing. Control, huh? hmmm...maybe i should have explained a little more. i don't need to know exact who, what, where, when why...just that he's with a friend and he's okay. i didn't know that for sure last week and it freaked me out...and he doesn't have a cell phone to boot...this week i knew he's be out with friends all weekend and he'd be fine and i was okay that's why i don't consider myself controlling, it just scares me sometimes...the way i act like that freaked out WetGirl Posted at 11:58 pm on June 15, 2008 I think it is a control issue!! You wanted to know where he was and what is was doing. You don't seem to have a problem when you know where he is and what he is doing. Control,  huh? Desertfoxel Posted at 11:57 pm on June 15, 2008 sometimes All 4 previous replies displayed.