Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Youre friend died.... Just kidding! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Pisciculus Posted at 2:58 pm on June 2, 2008 http://www.theagitator.com/2008/05/31/absolute-maddness/ What the hell is wrong with these people?  They should be sued out the ass.....

Replies Bud2400 Posted at 9:11 pm on June 3, 2008 Quote: from BeautifulSorrow at 2:07 pm on June 3, 2008 What the fuck is wrong with those people? There are better ways to tell kids not to get behind the wheel drunk without emotionally scarring them for life. If hearing that your friend died and then suddenly learning that it was a hoax emotionally scars you for life and cannot handle it, you are hopeless. Death is a big part of life and I guarantee that almost everybody will deal the death of a friend or family member one way or another. I really wish schools would teach kids how to cope with death and dealing with these situations, and furthermore, actually exposing them to just how shitty it feels to deal with a loss. BeautifulSorrow Posted at 2:07 pm on June 3, 2008 What the fuck is wrong with those people? There are better ways to tell kids not to get behind the wheel drunk without emotionally scarring them for life. Bud2400 Posted at 1:40 pm on June 3, 2008 Quote: from Pisciculus at 9:32 am on June 3, 2008 It is teaching students to distrust authority figures by having them lie. Have them lie and then... come out with it not too long after? Honestly, it's one thing to lie, but it's another to lie and then come out with it. It's not as if the students caught the BS themselves. So long as you retract what you originally claimed and explain exactly what was going on (so long as it was a good excuse, which in this case it was), no trust in authority figures have been lost at all. Also, it is not the schools place to put on a production like this. It's not the school's place to teach kids that drinking and driving is bad and can result in death? I beg to differ... If they talked to the parents before hand that would be one thing but i highly doubt that happened.  There are other ways to make this point stick without causing such intense emotional distress. But the question here is would the point would be made as strongly? Would the point they make against drinking and driving stick in these kids' heads when they and their friends are drunk? Honestly, when you're drunk, just being told "driving drunk is bad" doesn't mean shit because you have a tendency to disregard facts and common sense when drunk. On the other hand, you don't have that same tendency to disregard emotional distress like these students experienced. Those are actually remembered and thus decreases the chance that these students will let their friends drive drunk. Would it not be better that they experience the emotional trauma of a friend dying now and then being told that it was fake than actually experiencing it for real later? Schools have a tendency of being soft on its students thanks to overconcerned parents and fears over a lawsuit. As a result, they often fail to teach us the harsh realities of the real world and leave us on our own as a result.  Which is why I think that what this school did was not just surprising, but also admirable for just trying to attempt that. Pisciculus Posted at 9:32 am on June 3, 2008 Quote: from Bud2400 at 10:18 pm on June 2, 2008 Quote: from Pisciculus at 3:10 pm on June 2, 2008 I dont know how you guys can all think that lying and deception are ok ways to make a point...   So long as they got the consent of the student they said to have died beforehand, then I see no problem with it.  In fact, I think it's utterly awesome.  Things like this stick in peoples' heads and they'll remember to how they reacted when they were told that a friend died in a drinking and driving incident.  Hence they'll be less inclined to let any of their friends drink and drive in the future. It is teaching students to distrust authority figures by having them lie.  Also, it is not the schools place to put on a production like this.  If they talked to the parents before hand that would be one thing but i highly doubt that happened.  There are other ways to make this point stick without causing such intense emotional distress.   GoloSLB Posted at 11:23 pm on June 2, 2008 Quote: from MyCuteFiend at 3:00 pm on June 2, 2008 I think its kind of a good idea. good concept, but its f*ked up. Bud2400 Posted at 8:18 pm on June 2, 2008 Quote: from Pisciculus at 3:10 pm on June 2, 2008 I dont know how you guys can all think that lying and deception are ok ways to make a point... So long as they got the consent of the student they said to have died beforehand, then I see no problem with it.  In fact, I think it's utterly awesome.  Things like this stick in peoples' heads and they'll remember to how they reacted when they were told that a friend died in a drinking and driving incident.  Hence they'll be less inclined to let any of their friends drink and drive in the future. Pisciculus Posted at 3:10 pm on June 2, 2008 Quote: from deaths door14 at 5:02 pm on June 2, 2008 i think it's a good idea. I dont know how you guys can all think that lying and deception are ok ways to make a point... ATTI Posted at 3:09 pm on June 2, 2008 It's a good idea. Too many drunk assholes on the road. Maybe this'll keep these kids on their toes. IamMelissa Posted at 3:08 pm on June 2, 2008 that is horrible!! deaths door14 Posted at 3:02 pm on June 2, 2008 i think it's a good idea. brunettecheerxoxo Posted at 3:02 pm on June 2, 2008 wait did the kid go along with it where was he im so confused chelle8191 Posted at 3:02 pm on June 2, 2008 how rude!! Pisciculus Posted at 3:01 pm on June 2, 2008 Quote: from MyCuteFiend at 5:00 pm on June 2, 2008 I think its kind of a good idea. it is causing trauma to students.  If you thought a classmate had died, esspecially a close friend, that would cause emotional distress and causing fake emotional distress is illegal. evilsoul Posted at 3:01 pm on June 2, 2008 Quote: from californication at 11:00 pm on June 2, 2008 Might make people more aware? just what i was thinking NotCreative Posted at 3:01 pm on June 2, 2008 Whoa...I think that's going a little too far...but it does sound effective. Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.