i grew up in major city but in a private community so my experiences with girls have been limited. what i really want is a girlfriend. plain and simple
but i dont want a girlfriend for the sake of just having one. i want to experience that connection with a special someone. thats whats missing and thats what i need and want in my life. i dont want to go out and look for a girlfriend because i know that if i force things to happen they wont come out right. is this the right approach or what should i do?