Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic my best friends mom just passed away Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Willowlove Posted at 10:19 pm on July 31, 2006 My best friend's(A) mom just passed away, she was in a bad car wreck a few hours ago...I feel so sad and can't stop crying...I've not talked to A in a few months, we didn't have a fight, we just kinda drifted away, she used to be my roommate, but then moved back home to her parents(about 10 hours away)...Then because of shit I was going thru, I took it out on her we just drifted apart...I feel so bad I don't know how to help her...I'd drive down there right now if I thought she'd want me there...

Replies Stupid lad Posted at 3:34 am on Aug. 5, 2006 just go and visit her..believe me she will be happy 2 see u....if u won`t go then the feelings of (not helped her) persists in u.... Willowlove Posted at 10:35 pm on July 31, 2006 I know when my father passed away I just wanted to be alone...I just talkd to another friend of ours and she had talked to A, she'd mentioned going down there, we talked and we are going to probably leave in the morning... penguincube Posted at 10:31 pm on July 31, 2006 Can you call first and send your regards, and maybe get a feel for if she'd want you to come visit?  I think that she would probably appreciate it.  If you guys just drifted away and don't have anything negative between you I dont see why she would not be happy that you are caring about her, unless she is just wanting to be alone. VillesPoisonGirl Posted at 10:28 pm on July 31, 2006 well, i think if you realy wanted to drive down there just go and do it. she may be apprehensive at first but i think it may ease the issue if you apologize for your actions and then precede to tell her that you knew you needed to be here for her and that no matter what yo uare always there. i think she'll come around....and at any rate, i have a feeling she'll be happy to see you. having someone familiar and close to you is always nice to have in times like these instead of being surrounded by family. good luck hunny and god bless. *hugs* PM me if you wanna chat further :) girl22 Posted at 10:22 pm on July 31, 2006 oh thats sad God bless Shawn06 Posted at 10:21 pm on July 31, 2006 Oh that's terrible. I'm sorry about that... All 6 previous replies displayed.