Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Loneliness Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:03 pm on Nov. 4, 2006 Well, it's been over 5 months already since my ex-girlfriend dumped me and I've still had no luck with finding that special someone. The funny part is that I was so close to her and I had such high expectations in her. No other girl ever treated me as good as she did. In fact, despite that I'm such a nice guy, most girls seem to hate me anyway, and they always go for the assholes. This girl on the other hand showed so much potential. Unfortunately, she ended up cheating on me and going with some other guy who's a complete jerk. I never even did anything wrong to her, but she hurt me anyway. I was always open minded, sensitive, and comforting to her. I loved and trusted her and I don't know why she had to do this to me. I know what you're thinking: I should move on and look for someone else. But the truth of the matter is that there is no one else. Most other girls who I've asked out before have rejected me. Even when I've just wanted to be friends with them, they were rude and ignorant. All I ever wanted was to find that special someone so that I wouldn't have to be alone anymore. All I ever wanted was to just feel loved. I just want a girl who can be there for me as I would for her. I want a girl who will love me for who I am and not just about my body or sex. As pathetic as this may sound, I also want to be held by her and know that she's always there. It seems that this is all only fantasy. Sometimes, I cannot sleep at night because it's so difficult, knowing that there's other couples out there my age, while I have nobody. Sometimes, I wish I was dead. Maybe things will never get better. I've lost all hope in everything now, including God.

Replies rosemarygirl2002 Posted at 6:49 pm on Nov. 12, 2006 I really don't know why so many girls pass up the amazing guys and go for the assholes that will break they're heart. I just want to tell you that we're not all like that, and I truely hope that you find a girl someday who will see what an awesome guy you are and love you for it. Mz strawberry2k4 Posted at 7:09 am on Nov. 12, 2006 wow i wish i had a man like you lilac Posted at 3:50 pm on Nov. 10, 2006 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:03 am on Nov. 5, 2006 Well, it's been over 5 months already since my ex-girlfriend dumped me and I've still had no luck with finding that special someone. The funny part is that I was so close to her and I had such high expectations in her. No other girl ever treated me as good as she did. In fact, despite that I'm such a nice guy, most girls seem to hate me anyway, and they always go for the assholes. This girl on the other hand showed so much potential.   Unfortunately, she ended up cheating on me and going with some other guy who's a complete jerk. I never even did anything wrong to her, but she hurt me anyway. I was always open minded, sensitive, and comforting to her. I loved and trusted her and I don't know why she had to do this to me.   I know what you're thinking: I should move on and look for someone else. But the truth of the matter is that there is no one else. Most other girls who I've asked out before have rejected me. Even when I've just wanted to be friends with them, they were rude and ignorant. All I ever wanted was to find that special someone so that I wouldn't have to be alone anymore. All I ever wanted was to just feel loved.   I just want a girl who can be there for me as I would for her. I want a girl who will love me for who I am and not just about my body or sex. As pathetic as this may sound, I also want to be held by her and know that she's always there. It seems that this is all only fantasy. Sometimes, I cannot sleep at night because it's so difficult, knowing that there's other couples out there my age, while I have nobody. Sometimes, I wish I was dead. Maybe things will never get better. I've lost all hope in everything now, including God. Well the ending of your post isn't good here. First you gotto have confidence and a positive attitude towards things in life. I feel lonley too in terms of being in a relationship and friendship even. I got some friends but there not close. It is better than nothing tho. I'm also confident that one day I'll find a close friend in my city that is. I have found 1 online. He's far away tho so the possibility of us seeing each other even is triple times doubtful. I been in 2 relationships and they sucked. I was sexually and emotionally abused for 1 year by the first guy who I dated in high school and even planned marrige with. The second one just wanted me for my body. I didn't have sex with him tho and I'm happy I didn't. Happy I didn't give up something someone who didn't care about me wanted. But I'm still not loosing confidence. I do feel down about it sometimes. Tho I never feel like I'll never find someone ever. I beleive I will. Being in a relationship is an awsome thing. I'd love to find a guy who likes me for me and who cares about me and not sex only. Just be patient and confident like me. Well try to be atleast. LoneSoldier Posted at 5:13 am on Nov. 6, 2006 Your feelings are exactly the same as mine and I sympathize completely. The only difference between you and I is that you have been alone for 5 months, whereas I have been alone for 21 years! But I see where you are coming from, all the time I am so nice to girls and try to be the perfect gentleman, and they ditch me for the assholes who only want to fuck. Then they have the nerve to come back and cry on my shoulder about how they got hurt, sometimes after I explicitly told them that it was going to happen! I also find that girls are rude and snobby to me yet lap up the attention of assholes who only care about whats between their legs. And I, like you, envy the happiness of other couples, and wish for my own demise to take me away from this misery, and ask God why are things this way, beg him to make it all better. I guess what I'm trying to say is you're not alone and these sorts of things happen a lot. Just keep your head up and keep your faith in God, things will change. Hell if I can survive for 21 years, then you'll be fine. LinZ Posted at 9:21 am on Nov. 5, 2006 It might take a long time, but I think you'll find the right person. The fact of the matter is girls these days only want to get with the assholes, and all the guys want to get with the sluts. The nice guys and girls get screwed over until they find one another. Guys like you are a rare breed, and to the average little whore, you aren't even worth spitting on. But I wouldn't advise settling for a girl like this, because they'll only break your heart. You will find someone worth your time one day, so please do not lose hope. If someone as unattractive and pathetic as me can find a wonderful, loving partner, I think anyone can. MAFIA BOY Posted at 10:38 pm on Nov. 4, 2006 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations drop of rain Posted at 7:02 pm on Nov. 4, 2006 hang in there .. thats all i can say ... its been about 5 months since my last relationship and its been hard ... Its kind of difficult because he dosent want me to leave, but he dosent want to be with me either, he wants friends with benefits ... ive never really done that before, i dont know how i would feel about that ... has anyone ever gone through that before??? I really want a relationship though and i want it to be with him ... Theyre Gone Move On Posted at 5:37 pm on Nov. 4, 2006 It is so good to hear that there are others willing to talk about the pain of a break up. I cant imagine what it's like to go through a divorce. I you guys are will check out my blog. For some reason it makes me feel better about the day to day feelings that I have to go through with this break up. And with school and work, I never have time to talk about what I'm really feeling. But I want to try and make it better. Tell me what you think. I write one every day. www.theyregonemoveon.blogspot.com ... VirtusInternus Posted at 5:22 pm on Nov. 4, 2006 hang in there man. keep your chin up. You sound like a good dude and I'm sure you'll find a girl someday who is the person you are looking for. There are pleanty of fish in the sea so just put yourself out there and before you know it you will be with some1. Fuzzard07 Posted at 5:11 pm on Nov. 4, 2006 I feel the same as you mate... althought with me it has only been a month or two... although different to your story, i fucked up my relationship... although she cheated on me and is with that guy now... I was depressed for a months and caused arguments between me and her, which caused the break up... but i guess the cheating had an influence in it aswell... But, I guess maybe they aint the people you are supposed to be with... although i did love her like no-one else and still do have alot of feelings for her.. maybe it is supposed to happen... like fate... maybe someone better comes along? Love is just shit     QuizFairy Posted at 5:05 pm on Nov. 4, 2006 wow, you sound amazingly perfect compared to all the dudes I know. All 11 previous replies displayed.