Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Watch your hopes and dreams fall apart. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:05 pm on Nov. 10, 2006 Today, I went out with a bunch of girls and they started talking about their relationships and how they are really close. I they all have amazing boyfirends in amazing professions. I dont want to mention specifics. But im sure they are great boyfriends and offer alot of support. What is really disturbing to me is sometimes they kiss other guys and like act as if they are single, and dance with all the horny guys while they're boyfriends arnt around. Even with such amazing boyfriends they still feel the need to try other people? Doesnt that mean that their current boyfriend isnt enough"? Then they started talking about having someone to fall back on, and how good it feels when they are done making out with everyone on the dance floor they go back to their boyfriends. These arnt sluts, they are my close friends but it seems like they are open relationships. Just yesterday I was thinking to myself that I could never get one of those girls because I could never measure up to their current boyfriends. Which means even if I give it all I got, I will be no where near capable of having a girlfriend. My dreams of having a wife and kids are ruinined, I find it hard to keep going. I also have a disease that is hereditary and to father a  child would be cursing him/her for life. I just cant do that. For once I feel like I finally understand my place in life, and that is to not be in it at all. Theres nothing left for me to believe in.

Replies lolasaurus Rex Posted at 11:56 pm on Nov. 11, 2006 all the good people are taken you have to settle for the dregs Junesong Provision Posted at 8:14 pm on Nov. 10, 2006 You seem really nice and mature, seeing from this post. Don't worry, you dont need a girl like them. You need a commited girl, who will truly love you. You'll find someone one day, dont think that just cause your single now you'll be single forever. OverTheAir Posted at 8:11 pm on Nov. 10, 2006 Um people that cheat on their boyfriends are sluts. Why are you comparing every girl to a bunch of cheating whores? tumbleweedfugue Posted at 8:10 pm on Nov. 10, 2006 Those girls seem like all the girls on my dorm floor.  Honestly...I don't know how they do it and still call themselves 'faithful'. There are other girls out there, too.  Why do you feel as though you can't measure up to their current boyfriends?   Don't let your dreams be dashed, especially not that of having a family.  There's always adoption; my boyfriend was adopted into an amazing family that treats him as though he were their biological son.  Just because your having a biological child isn't smart doesn't mean you can't be a father.   Keep your chin up and your smile on, you too will have someone.  I know waiting for that blows, but it will come.   I wish you all the best.     All 4 previous replies displayed.