Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic how does one know if they're ugly? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post razuel Posted at 6:44 am on Jan. 13, 2007 I've been fat all my life until recently.  now i'm kind of curious as to where I stand in the eyes of women. i've been shy and strayed away from girls all my life, now I'm in new waters and a little lost.

Replies goodman Posted at 3:37 am on Jan. 22, 2007 Ugliness is more a state of mind. omfg frahd chikn Posted at 7:54 am on Jan. 13, 2007 if you look in a mirror and it breaks. Young Black Male Posted at 7:02 am on Jan. 13, 2007 Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Heck, even brat pit would be considered ugly in the eyes of some women......... As for the original poster. Just be yourself kid. Sure your self esteem may be low or whatever, but you should remember that your looks won't make a difference to ppl that matter. And if a girl is gonna judge you promarily based on your looks, then shes not worth your time of day. Just remember that not everybody will like you kid,,,in fact, most people will hate you for being you. Whether youre goodlookin or ugly, the haters will always be there... So forget the haters and focus on those that are willing to surpass your outer appearance ,to see the inner you. peace razuel Posted at 7:01 am on Jan. 13, 2007 how about i post a picture and the females rate me 1-10? deadteddiebear77 Posted at 6:57 am on Jan. 13, 2007 yeah. im on my way of leaving this big shell and comeing out different. i dont knwo what i will look like. but yeah. ive been chubby since the 7th grade. and my gf still loves me. theAnomie Posted at 6:55 am on Jan. 13, 2007 Quote: from razuel at 2:50 pm on Jan. 13, 2007 well for someone who's been fat and self concious all their life, it's not that easy to go out and hit on women That's true, brother. You have to begin thinking positively about yourself, take any compliments you get and ignore anything else. It'll take a while, but slowly your self-confidence should improve. A change of scenery may also be nice, I dunno if you're at the age where you'll be changing schools any time soon but the new people will only see you as you are now, so you can be whatever you want. MissCherry Posted at 6:53 am on Jan. 13, 2007 Hehe...i was realy ugly when i was a kid but my looks developed and they're still developing :) razuel Posted at 6:53 am on Jan. 13, 2007 haha, how often do people walk around shirtless to show their stretchmarks? how about a rating site? psychedelic kitten Posted at 6:51 am on Jan. 13, 2007 Go somewhere where no-one knows you and see what the reaction is. Congratulations on getting healthy too! Blackadder Posted at 6:51 am on Jan. 13, 2007 I dont know -- are stretch marks a turn on? razuel Posted at 6:50 am on Jan. 13, 2007 well for someone who's been fat and self concious all their life, it's not that easy to go out and hit on women SexyBitch4U Posted at 6:47 am on Jan. 13, 2007 ugly is a strong word... but jus go out and flirt with girls ask some out... u seem pretty kool theAnomie Posted at 6:47 am on Jan. 13, 2007 Ha I was a fat bastard until about 3 years ago. Suddenly I had a growth spurt and developed cheek bones, I get called handsome every now and again. live laugh love Posted at 6:46 am on Jan. 13, 2007 lol, uhh go out somewhere, crowded. like a mall or amusement park. & hit on someone & see what their reaction is. [i would say wait till someone hits on you, but you're not a girl.. lol] All 14 previous replies displayed.