Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I am afraid of men... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 12:52 pm on April 29, 2008 Seriously, I really hate meeting guys because they scare me. I'm fairly small and I've been in an abusive relationship before, so I'm always afraid that they're going to attack me. It sounds totally ridiculous I know, but I'm terrified. I refuse to walk anywhere by myself - I always make my friend Mike (who is one guy that I am not afraid of) walk me home, or my brother. What is wrong with me? I know that all guys (well, most guys) don't want to attack me and rape me or kill me, but I just can't shake that feeling. Especially because they all seem to be so tall, when I'm only 5'2". How can I get rid of this?

Replies jamescoleman Posted at 5:40 pm on May 18, 2008 i've got something good for you to take care of this goto the gym (maybe womens) and get strong and also run alot. take martial arts classes where you can learn to kick guys butts but bewarned...guys and girls both practice with eachother with moves but you'll get some friends. now what will happen is that you know how to kick a guys butt over time and you'll be able to over power a guy over time this will instill confidence in you. lilac Posted at 12:21 pm on May 18, 2008 I'm 5'1 so don't feel bad. And talking to a councellor might help. I'm guessing you've had bad experiences before. Anonymous Posted at 1:03 pm on April 29, 2008 Thanks. I do think I need to talk to somebody - I can't stand that my ex-boyfriend still has this control over me. Schisel Posted at 1:01 pm on April 29, 2008 there is nothing wrong with you bluskypeChris Posted at 12:53 pm on April 29, 2008 You date an Asian guy instead, nuff said??? cadetjones2011 Posted at 12:53 pm on April 29, 2008 well you could try talking to mike about it and if you want further help you can om me kiss your mirror Posted at 12:53 pm on April 29, 2008 there's nothing wrong with you. you've obviously been scarred by what's happened to you previously and in my opinion you should maybe talk to a counsellor or something because there is obviously still problems there. hope everything goes ok. x Cosmopolitan Posted at 12:53 pm on April 29, 2008 Psychiatrist. All 8 previous replies displayed.