Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic HELP DR.JECKAL MR>HYDE BF!!!!! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post princess2brescued Posted at 3:28 pm on June 17, 2008 So my BF and I have been together over 2 years we've had a baby in the past 9 and right now aren't living together because we are at a bad finacial state. Note: we have lived together a good year n a half before this me moving home and him into a cheap place. Latly he's turned into Dr.Jeckal and Mr.Hyde. One day everything is fine and we are happy as we can be given our situation next hes freaking out on me over nothing just starting for no reason. now we only see each other 1x a week Our son and I go out to his apartment and spend the night and then the whole next day together then we go home. this happens at LEAST once a month we're fine and then he doesn't see us and things flip out and then we're fine again. Each time a little worse then before. I don't know if this is a insecurity or if its just him being weird. I'm getting really tired of it though and the fighting one minute fine the next never with a full solution. Can any guys relate to this or give me some form of advice?

Replies nikki Posted at 1:29 pm on June 19, 2008 He's clearly struggling not being with you. Is there no way of him living with you and splitting the rent? It's got to be hard on him if he barely sees his child, after all. Duke Posted at 3:51 pm on June 17, 2008 My guess is that he's feeling the pressure of having responsibility for a family and is not up to the challenge. You need to have an honest talk with him and try to figure out where your lives are headed. Sounds to me like he is looking for a way out. MissPrixy07 Posted at 3:50 pm on June 17, 2008 Well, if you've talked to him, I don't know if there's any other advice I can give you. Maybe you should talk to like a therapist about it. If you're worried, you should get some help. Maybe he has a problem. It could just be a normal thing, though. x Janelle x Posted at 3:44 pm on June 17, 2008 holy shit. princess2brescued Posted at 3:39 pm on June 17, 2008 I've tried to talk to him and then its better and then REPEAT all over again like 2 months later HelHound Posted at 3:37 pm on June 17, 2008 You should really talk to him. Cadd Gogg Posted at 3:31 pm on June 17, 2008 You should talk to him.. Tell him that he has to stop that for your baby... I guess this is all I can say.. I hope everything works out okay! :] All 7 previous replies displayed.