Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic if i asked out a girl for coffee Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Evangelion Posted at 3:35 pm on July 15, 2008 does the girl really expect for the guy to handle most of the convo-initiation? because i think its definitely should be the girl since thats more of their area. if a guy asked you out for coffee or lunch or something, do you expect him to dominate the conversation? (keep in mind that the guy isn't the ideal confident man)

Replies nik1 Posted at 2:35 pm on Aug. 2, 2008 If you invited her out I would think you would want to impress her and forcing her to do all the talking does not look well for you. noahtheman Posted at 1:11 am on July 16, 2008 Your first mistake was asking her out for coffee. Now she's going to think you just want to be her friend or something, assuming you want more of course. Friend status is not good at all. thesketch Posted at 4:06 pm on July 15, 2008 f'shosho chinaman Posted at 3:56 pm on July 15, 2008 i hate it when theres long silences during conversations with a girl you are interested in... i say... both needs to put effort in the convo... i dont think guys need to start the convo but for me, it usually happens cuz the girl is usually shyer than the guy... so, i say, order some strong tasting coffee and strap down and prepare to talk! Bring some random topics up! Don't be a fool ! usblogger Posted at 3:47 pm on July 15, 2008 i think the flow is important. keep the flow, but don't talk too much. don't abruptly change topics too often. but know that you might be expected to drive the conversation. Hoop chic08 Posted at 3:37 pm on July 15, 2008 idk. thesketch Posted at 3:37 pm on July 15, 2008 talking too much is a turn off for a lot of girls. i agree with whoever said "go with the flow." branflakes Posted at 3:36 pm on July 15, 2008 guys should be leading the girls to talk and throwing some points here and there to demonstrate his value Skip Posted at 3:36 pm on July 15, 2008 i expect both people to have equal say in the conversation.  or if one person is more interested in the other, they should be the one initiating a lot crazy4her Posted at 3:36 pm on July 15, 2008 no girls like to be paid attention to. when she talks look into her eyes. agree with things or if not give ur side acausedelle Posted at 3:36 pm on July 15, 2008 I believe most girls would think that because the guy is supposed to be the confident one. HatesYou Posted at 3:36 pm on July 15, 2008 Neither. Simply go with the flow. You're both there to get to know each other. Why plan out a conversation? All 12 previous replies displayed.