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morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 10:09 am on Oct. 24, 2008
i love her, i really do.. but omg.
how is it my fault if she doesn't have a car?
why am i expected to drive her everywhere she wants to go? why is that my responsibility?
she doesn't even ask anymore.. she's just like "drive me here.."
maybe i don't want to go anywhere... but if i refuse, she gets mad and huffy and won't talk to me for two days. omg. we both have to live here for a year.. i don't want there to be any tension.. but it's MY truck.
the last thing she said to me:: "i want you to put me on your insurance so i can drive your truck whenever i want."
uhh. i think not.
i mean, she offered to pay half the insurance.. but i don't want her on there. i don't want her driving my truck whenever. i don't even like to let her borrow it to do little errands.
how do i tell her that without being the bitch?
or... does that make me the bitch?

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UndergroundKing Posted at 10:15 am on Oct. 24, 2008
Quote: from morrisonsMYmuse at 1:12 pm on Oct. 24, 2008

Quote: from UndergroundKing at 1:11 pm on Oct. 24, 2008

Thats doesn't make you a bitch at all.  That shit is ridiculous... Tell her to piss off.

 
i would love to do that.. but we both have to share this apartment for a year. we were really good friends before we moved in together.. i think this is going to ruin it though. i feel like her freaking chauffer... i should get a hat!


Just make it clear that you arn't around to do that.  You will take her places at your convenience. Let her know how rude it is to treat you like it's your fault, when she should have got a job so she could buy a car.

morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 10:12 am on Oct. 24, 2008
Quote: from UndergroundKing at 1:11 pm on Oct. 24, 2008

Thats doesn't make you a bitch at all. That shit is ridiculous... Tell her to piss off.


i would love to do that.. but we both have to share this apartment for a year. we were really good friends before we moved in together.. i think this is going to ruin it though. i feel like her freaking chauffer... i should get a hat!

Scandol5Mossie Posted at 10:12 am on Oct. 24, 2008
stand up for yourself or she will be wearing you undies w/o asking next.


s5m

gdeeaz Posted at 10:12 am on Oct. 24, 2008
you are not being a bitch, i wouldn't put another person on my insurance either.
joshua virden Posted at 10:12 am on Oct. 24, 2008
just let them know how u feel dont hold back
Torpid Kitten Posted at 10:12 am on Oct. 24, 2008
She's being the bitch. It's your truck, she has no right to demand use of it. Just tell her like it is. It's YOUR truck, not hers. She can get her own damn car.

My roomie's been getting on my nerves too. Fucking getting up at 6am to do laundry when she knows I had a hard time sleeping because I've been up coughing. Ugh.

liv21 Posted at 10:12 am on Oct. 24, 2008
If she gets mad and huffy when you say no, seems like problem solved.  Then she won't be bothering you for another few days.  :p
I'd just straight up talk to her about it though, next time it comes up.
UndergroundKing Posted at 10:11 am on Oct. 24, 2008
Thats doesn't make you a bitch at all.  That shit is ridiculous... Tell her to piss off.
miss mae Posted at 10:10 am on Oct. 24, 2008
damn she is rude about it i wouldnt put her on my insurance either
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