ok, here goes: it seems that Much more than Half of the time that girls get on tables to dance at parties, either a) they're Really drunk and can't keep their balance and fall off, or, b) the table just gives out and breaks under their weight and they still fall. a third, and, yeah, kinda strange observation, if the table actually doesn't break (which has been rare from what i've heard and seen), and the girls have on high stiletto heel shoes/boots, the table still gets pretty damaged with scratches and dents from the high heels. this is the one and only thing that the bar tops have in common with the tables, cause, i have yet to see or hear of any bar collapsing and breaking from girls dancing on it. Unless, someone else knows and wants to share??
anyway, my question for all the table dancing girls out there is: if the majority of the time, you Know that either the tables wind up Breaking, or get severely damaged, Or, you might be in such bad shape from drinking so much that ya might fall off whether the table breaks or not; Why do you constantly get up and dance on a small little table that most likely can't hold your weight after a while anyway, when it's much safer and much more room on the floor?? (then, of course, some floors have collapsed, too)
is it because:
a) you like being up above everyone and all the attention? (this answer may apply for bar-top dancing, too) b) you like the idea of being destructive and powerful and breaking the tables under your feet? (which, if this is Your answer, do you then also like it when/if the floor breaks under you, too and you've tried breaking that also?) c) when dancing on the tables and/or bar tops, you like leaving your "mark" where you've been (high stiletto heel scratches, holes, dents, etc.) all over the table and/or bar??
these are the only 3 reasons that i could think of for Some girls being so 'obsessed' with dancing on bars and Especially tables that almost Always collapse and break under them. If, i'm wrong on all 3 and any girls wanna share their reason(s) for this that i couldn't think of, Please, go ahead and feel free! before i go, Please don't anyone take offense to anything here. it's really just a curious, kinda silly/kinda serious question that i just wanted to ask and mean no harm to anyone. again, i Do Love watching girls dance on tables and bars, but, just curious what really drives you to go up there all the time, Espescially on the poor tables that are always breaking?? dying to hear some answers! thanks ladies!!
I dance on the bar pretty often since I, uh, work at a bar. I don't really drink though, and I've never been drunk, so I do all this completely sober, have never fallen off and have never broken anything because of my dancing on the bartop. It's fun, and I do like the attention, and it makes me a good chunk of change when I do it.
It's fun, and I do like the attention, and it makes me a good chunk of change when I do it.
well alright! now that's an answer!! thanks Jenny!! makes Total sense, answered it thoroughly and was very descriptive, and is Totally honest, upfront, and....ok, like i said before, makes Total sense!! put Jenny up there with Secret Mind and Kali!! sounds like you have the ideal and Best job there, Jenny!! thanks again!!
they do it because they're drunk and it seemed like a good idea at the time. i have never danced on a table at a party so i probly shouldn't be replying but your not the boss of my and i'll do what i want! lol
i have never danced on a table at a party so i probly shouldn't be replying but your not the boss of my and i'll do what i want! lol
that's ok there Purplefreak. i caught your "lol" at the end and that's cool, plus, you actually Did kinda answer with your opinion in the first part anyway, so thanks!! (plus, i like purple) lol
i don't do it often but i'm destructive
but i'm destructive
hmm.... 'Destructive', huh?! care to elaborate maybe??
wow, that was such a long, complicated, scientific observation on the least relevant thing. Man, you're weird. I don't dance on tables and i don't know many girls who do either. Again, i Don't understand why people reply to topics that aren't meant for them to answer, or that they can't relate to?! i only look at, and Definitely only answer to topics that apply to me and that i can relate to! ok, yeah, i admit, it's kind of a weird question and observation, yes, but first, i can just as easily say you're weird for taking the time to reply to a question that has Nothing to do with you. i stated TWICE here that this topic was for girls who DO dance on tables and/or bar tops, NOT for girls who DON'T! then, it doesn't exactly to take Too much observing, or a rocket scientist, to figure out that when girls who are wearing heels (Especially thin stilettos) get off of the tables and/or bar tops that they were dancing on, to notice how all of a sudden the surface of the table and/or bar becomes all scratched and marked up with dents and even holes from their thin stiletto heels. Or, the table just gives out and breaks. But, in general, what i'm saying is this: there ARE girls out there who do this (dance on tables and bars) and, some don't want to damage and/or break them, but just have a good time dancing up there, while others, either don't care if they damage and/or break them, or Some, even Want to and Love doing it, so, i'm just curious how many girls out there that DO (repeat- DO) dance on tables and/or bars feel about the damage they cause when they either scratch, dent, and mark up the surface, or just break them?? that's all!! if you're a girl who doesn't do any of this, and is even opposed to this, that's fine and you're entitled to your opinion, But i have No idea why you're wasting your time answering this question and insulting me?! i don't answer polls or questions that aren't directed to anything i can't relate to and insult or put down those people. i just leave it alone and move on, and suggest you do the same. but, again, before i go, thanks to the lovely ladies here who Do, or Have danced on tables and/or bars who answered and answered honestly and shared their feelings!!
I don't dance on tables and i don't know many girls who do either.
Again, i Don't understand why people reply to topics that aren't meant for them to answer, or that they can't relate to?! i only look at, and Definitely only answer to topics that apply to me and that i can relate to! ok, yeah, i admit, it's kind of a weird question and observation, yes, but first, i can just as easily say you're weird for taking the time to reply to a question that has Nothing to do with you. i stated TWICE here that this topic was for girls who DO dance on tables and/or bar tops, NOT for girls who DON'T! then, it doesn't exactly to take Too much observing, or a rocket scientist, to figure out that when girls who are wearing heels (Especially thin stilettos) get off of the tables and/or bar tops that they were dancing on, to notice how all of a sudden the surface of the table and/or bar becomes all scratched and marked up with dents and even holes from their thin stiletto heels. Or, the table just gives out and breaks. But, in general, what i'm saying is this: there ARE girls out there who do this (dance on tables and bars) and, some don't want to damage and/or break them, but just have a good time dancing up there, while others, either don't care if they damage and/or break them, or Some, even Want to and Love doing it, so, i'm just curious how many girls out there that DO (repeat- DO) dance on tables and/or bars feel about the damage they cause when they either scratch, dent, and mark up the surface, or just break them?? that's all!! if you're a girl who doesn't do any of this, and is even opposed to this, that's fine and you're entitled to your opinion, But i have No idea why you're wasting your time answering this question and insulting me?! i don't answer polls or questions that aren't directed to anything i can't relate to and insult or put down those people. i just leave it alone and move on, and suggest you do the same. but, again, before i go, thanks to the lovely ladies here who Do, or Have danced on tables and/or bars who answered and answered honestly and shared their feelings!!
Must be an american thing
Hey I'm American and I agree with you! Don't fault all of us...