Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Guys and Girls- together? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Kasimarra Posted at 8:03 am on Dec. 9, 2005 Does everyone think it is fine for guys and girls to live together, so is it just setting up a disastorous situation?

Replies sexyangeleyes Posted at 6:08 am on June 6, 2006 I think it's fine i'll be doing that soon! xcutioners Posted at 3:50 pm on June 1, 2006 I think it's fine =) spiked2005 Posted at 5:59 am on April 18, 2006 I think if they don't get involved it would be good, because next comes arguments over stupid shizznit if you know what I mean.   saikojay Posted at 6:40 pm on Mar. 30, 2006 really depends on who it is lol ricerice Posted at 9:54 am on Mar. 24, 2006 The only thing I would worry about is maturity of both the guy and girl. What Im referring to is bathroom noise. Most guys and girls dont want other people hearing it, but if the two are going to live together they have to be comfortable enough to let things slide. They both live there, so they both need to feel comfortable. Anyone agree? LinZ Posted at 10:01 pm on Mar. 20, 2006 In my apartment building (school-sponsored), guys and girls can live together only if they are either siblings or are married. Still, I think it would be cool if people could room with friends of the opposite gender. If that was possible, I'd move in with my guy friend in a heartbeat. I see nothing wrong with people of opposite genders living together, whether they are friends or more than that. TheatreMinelli Posted at 8:04 am on Mar. 18, 2006 I think its great. canon Posted at 3:21 am on Mar. 17, 2006 Although very tempting I think it depends a lot on how your parents would react to it.  You are going to say, "Who cares what they think" and this may be good enough due to poor relations with families.  However I wouldn't want to do anything that her parents would perceive as being sleezy or change their impression of me. With a marriage in the future I think a couple should consider holding off living together until then.   itsluvthatimsendin2u Posted at 9:47 am on Mar. 10, 2006 My flat is a mixed flat and I like it that way. Next year I'm only going to be living with girls and that sucks! I like living with guys. I'm gonna have to hang out at my male friends' places more! Girls are so gossipy and bitchy. just to feel Posted at 5:15 am on Jan. 14, 2006 yer its ok candygirl05 Posted at 5:08 am on Jan. 14, 2006 Yeah its fine - doesn't bother me kaileilea Posted at 2:16 am on Jan. 7, 2006 I think it's fine as long as both parties are willing to do it.  Though i"m not sure what we're talking about here, living together as in Rooming together, or living together as in "we've been dating a while, you wanna move in?"   As far as the rooming situation, it can be good, as long as both parties have a clear understanding of their responsibilities.  It's really not that different from living with a same sex roomie.  Just make sure you move in with someone you're compatible with. In the romantic stuff, well, that's a more complicated story.  *shrug* Ultimately i think people should do what they feel is right.  And even if it isnt, i believe life is a series of trials and errors to find what is right.  So just keep trying.   ahernster Posted at 1:00 am on Dec. 16, 2005 its fine, me and my gf live together and we get along fine.. we sumtimes get moody but we know to never let it get out of control.. if sumthings bothering one of us then we'd talk about it.. its all about being open and talking. relationships arnt like all these fairy tales u read about.. its comprimize and working at it. blooble Posted at 6:52 am on Dec. 15, 2005 i'm at college at the mo and there is one guy to 60 girls and i live with all girls and we're all at the same college and it is stressin me out so much! i've found a room for next year livin with 1 girl and four guys all from a different college and i am so looking forward to leaving behind the girly bitchiness!!! NYGirl1113 Posted at 10:01 pm on Dec. 14, 2005 It's a shame my school doesn't allow it.  I guess it's more important to seperate straight couples then make the sizable gay population awkward about their roommate situation.  I have come to realize when you get to the point where you can pick roommates, most gays end up rooming with other gays just becuase straights feel weird about rooming wiht somebody who likes people of their gender.  Although imagine if a straight guy and girl room together.  Even if it starts platonic, more can easily come out of it.  That's exactly what happens to many gays that are forced to room together.  I'm living off campus next year (or perhaps semester if I end up transfering) so that I can room with a guy.  Yay, no distractions! Most recent 15 of 31 previous replies displayed.