Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic New people - HELP! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post ndj2006 Posted at 6:56 am on Feb. 27, 2007 Basically, there's this dude I know and he's invited me to go round to his house (I'm at uni btw) for like food and drink and shit and then go out with his house to a local club afterwards! I know him ok-ish, enough to talk to and hang out with but I don't know the rest of his house so as much as I wanna go out to meet new people, be sociable, and hav a good night, I'm nervous about these people. I know it sounds strange but in terms of friendship groups, i tend to find it harder to talk to guys then i do to girls. This relates back to my childhood - i was always put down for not being into sport etc... which led to me developin a dislike of sport in general and as a result its kinda tended in me being alienated from being mates with guys cos literally almost feels like got nothing to talk about. It's just i've gotta get over this fear at some point and i just wondered if anyone's got any useful advice, it would really help! How i should be on the night, things i could talk about to avoid weird silences and shit etc etc! its complicated cos im not into computer games (mainly cos parents never let me have a console when i was younger), i don't like sport, i'm still a virgin (so i dont mind sex talk until it comes to the "oh you done this before" etc)! any advice would be great!!!

Replies ndj2006 Posted at 6:56 am on Feb. 27, 2007 Basically, there's this dude I know and he's invited me to go round to his house (I'm at uni btw) for like food and drink and shit and then go out with his house to a local club afterwards! I know him ok-ish, enough to talk to and hang out with but I don't know the rest of his house so as much as I wanna go out to meet new people, be sociable, and hav a good night, I'm nervous about these people. I know it sounds strange but in terms of friendship groups, i tend to find it harder to talk to guys then i do to girls. This relates back to my childhood - i was always put down for not being into sport etc... which led to me developin a dislike of sport in general and as a result its kinda tended in me being alienated from being mates with guys cos literally almost feels like got nothing to talk about. It's just i've gotta get over this fear at some point and i just wondered if anyone's got any useful advice, it would really help! How i should be on the night, things i could talk about to avoid weird silences and shit etc etc! its complicated cos im not into computer games (mainly cos parents never let me have a console when i was younger), i don't like sport, i'm still a virgin (so i dont mind sex talk until it comes to the "oh you done this before" etc)! any advice would be great!!! All 8 previous replies displayed.