Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Asked out random girl in library - Was I too aggressive? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 9:52 am on July 23, 2008 Just 40 minutes ago I was in the library cramming for exams.  I'm taking summer classes at my college and there was this girl 4 tables across staring at me.  So I walked over to her and said this: "Hi, I saw you looking over at me in this library. I thought you might need a study break!" We talked for 5 minutes before I exited out and said "Aight I gotta get back to cramming now.  Gonna go before my books get too jealous of us."  I did end up getting her number. Okay, I know that girls find confidence sexy.  But sometimes I'm not sure if I'm TOO bold or gusty for my own good.  I don't want to come across as cocky or anything.  So how confident should a guy really be?  Would all girls be cool with what I just did?

Replies nik1 Posted at 2:47 pm on July 27, 2008 Some girls would and some won't. technole Posted at 10:51 pm on July 24, 2008 Next time before you leave and cut to the chase say: "so are you available for checking out?" mvp2308 Posted at 10:43 am on July 24, 2008 yo that was perfect the ladies at my school say im too aggresive cuz i have confidence and they like chilled back dudes but be aggresive man we need more girls to be aggressive cuz they believe in this stupid sayin the boys so always go up to the girl and that is not true somelikeitred Posted at 4:04 am on July 24, 2008 Well she gave you her number, so you did it right. cptg Posted at 9:04 pm on July 23, 2008 i kinda wish more guys were gutsy like that, but i would've stuck with "I thought you might need a study break!" not the oh you were looking part... morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 11:55 am on July 23, 2008 that's pretty good. it wasn't overly cocky or anything. maybe a little corny, but corny is better than cocky. lol. you were fine. melodramatic Posted at 9:59 am on July 23, 2008 That was a pretty good way to ask a girl out. As long as you don't blatantly stare or try to hit on her in a really rude way, Then it's fine. It's good that you are worrying about being too aggressive, because then you will be subconsciously limiting yourself. Xhiddenartist17X Posted at 9:58 am on July 23, 2008 I dunno because that could come off as bing majorly cocky to some girls. I guess it depends on how you said it. Ryoichiro Posted at 9:58 am on July 23, 2008 You have alot more guts then i do. JuggaletteBaby Posted at 9:56 am on July 23, 2008 Quote: from cherrys77 at 9:55 am on July 23, 2008 I think you did it perfectly.   this. cherrys77 Posted at 9:55 am on July 23, 2008 I think you did it perfectly.   knekay Posted at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008 i would be cool with it. i like when guys show confidence like that and actually want to have a conversation rather than staring and  callin me "hott or sexy " that is so played and annoying . MissCherry Posted at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008 I don't think that was overly confident at all. I think it was just alright. Once, I met a guy when we were hanging out with our friends.. and he took it way too far because he was constantly asking me what I thought about his looks and telling me loads of girls go after him. T.T ugh Potterishdancer Posted at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008 not every girl. ur lucky it worked on that one! u have confidence and thats good. but some girls wont fall for lines like that. it depends on the type of girl u approach. u did well. just dont make that a habit. dReier Posted at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008 good job Most recent 15 of 19 previous replies displayed.