Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic what do i do if i value them both? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post byebyebeautyful Posted at 12:25 am on July 24, 2008 ok well i have a friend/lover (guy A) but hes more a friend than lover.. and a soon to be boyfriend because he means alot to me guy (guy T)... anyways, i really like guy T alot and i see it going to something serious. my problem is, i really value my friendship with guy A, though i remember he once told me that if we became platonic friends he wouldnt be able to handle it and would have to cut off communication with me... i dont want to cheat on guy T at all but i also dont want to lose the friendship of guy A either, ( its becoming a really nice friendship, were becoming less and less lovers and more and more friends) anyone know what i can do without losing one or the other?

Replies shutter bugs Posted at 12:28 am on July 24, 2008 so, if you want to just be friends with your lover he wont talk to you ever again? guy sounds like an asshole, tell him how you feel if he cares about you he should let you go and just be friends HXC Posted at 12:27 am on July 24, 2008 three way. All 2 previous replies displayed.