Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Fuck fuck fuckity fuck Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:18 pm on July 26, 2008 So, erm...last summer, my friend and I had a one night stand. Stupid, but I did have feelings for him before that. We ended up not talking for a while. Well. My boyfriend decided to go apply for a job, and he got it. While I was waiting for him to finish filling out his new hire papers, my friend walks up to me. "Remember me?" So yeah. My boyfriend and the friend are now co-workers. They had to go out of town for some fer training session, which was about 1 1/2 hours away. They were together pretty much the entire day (with two other people, of course). My boyfriend gets on AIM and explains how his day was. He mentioned something about "male bonding", and my heart skipped a beat. I'm terrified that the friend brought up what happened last summer, and my boyfriend is pissed at me for it. I dunno. He seemed a little off talking to me. Yeah, we discussed future dates, but he still seemed iffy. I dunno. I tend to worry about things that probably never happened, but who knows. I'm scared shitless. If he is pissed at me though, I wouldn't know why. The whole thing happened months before I even met him, and I've never brought it up, and never planned on it. Blahh. Should I be as worried as I am? I've felt like I could puke ALL day. SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY, PLEASE.

Replies Anonymous Posted at 8:29 pm on July 26, 2008 I don't want to bring it up to either of them. It was stupid, and I'd like to forget it, but it just worries me that the friend hasn't and he's been talking about it. Blahhh. I kind of just want to crawl into a hole and hide for a while...at least until I find out what happened. hurricanemisses Posted at 8:22 pm on July 26, 2008 Daaanng!! I thought you were talkin about "South Park"!!! Tigerhawk Posted at 8:21 pm on July 26, 2008 I'd certainly not want to talk to a guy who's had a one night stand with my girlfriend. I mean it would be too unbearable, it is slutty. But since it was months before she even met me, Id have easier time letting go of it. silverrose42 Posted at 8:20 pm on July 26, 2008 Honestly, you need to ask the fuck buddy if he said anything, and to please not if he hasn't already... Vbby Posted at 8:20 pm on July 26, 2008 Juno much? oh you dont want your boyfriend to know you had a one night stand? ohh. ask the one timer to keep your shit to himself. neverjeeps Posted at 8:20 pm on July 26, 2008 I think it will be fine. TemperFire Posted at 8:20 pm on July 26, 2008 that happend before yous were together, not like it was cheating or anything. if he dont like it then there isnt much you can do about it newman Posted at 8:20 pm on July 26, 2008 No, you shouldn't be worried that you and your friend did stuff in the past and your bf now knows about it.  You should be worried that "male bonding" might mean "gay sex."  Uh-oh! bengali Posted at 8:19 pm on July 26, 2008 dude that sucks...  im sorry! All 9 previous replies displayed.