Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic read please and be openminded Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:00 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Before you guys judge please take your time to understand where im coming from. I met this sweet caring person about a week ago. But i find it to be funny. because we met on chatroom. Something i never do, because its unsafe. But i did and here is this very cute, guy talking to me. Given me his number on the dot, and offering to show himself on cam. Were both 20. Talk and slowly getting to know each other, juss 2 days ago he said he loves me...  when asked if he is serious, he says yes, because of my personality. He wants to work with me to trust him.... I know its unsafe, but seeing him on cam and his voice as well while he's on cam. Idk if i should see where it goes. It can be love soo soon? Or lust.. Please be openminded bout this

Replies TigressaLynnMae Posted at 10:12 am on Aug. 10, 2008 I think its lust. I dont believ that you can love someone that quick without knowing the real person. I fell in love with my (ex) girlfriend, whom I met online, pretty much within the seconds of talking to her. breannafhchick06 Posted at 9:02 am on Aug. 10, 2008 take someone with you  and be careful erolimo Posted at 8:50 am on Aug. 10, 2008 When you go to meet him, he will send his men to kidnap you and then I can't imagine what they are going to do with you. Do you really trust him? its only me again Posted at 8:31 am on Aug. 10, 2008 i'd do it, but go with a friend. Its not like your 13, you're an adult, jus go with a friend Anonymous Posted at 8:22 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Thanks again. I shall. We only been talking soon to be a week. If not so bluerosedangel Posted at 8:16 am on Aug. 10, 2008 In my own opinion I think it's way too soon of him to be saying "I love you". I don't exactly know the time frame of which you guys have been talking, but it could very well be love. I've been talking to someone online for 5 months now, and I am not sure if it's love, but it's just as strong. But I agree with everyone else - take someone with you if you go meet him; that's what I did. It could develop more into love once you meet him. And if you're unsure about going to see him, maybe see if he can come see you. jami x3 Posted at 8:15 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Definitely bring a friend... but if you honestly believe that it could work go for it.. who knows what you could miss out on! Anonymous Posted at 8:13 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Thank you all for your advice. And i am following everything that has been said. Which is taken it slow and not rushing. Because anything can happen. However, were both 20 and i heard and saw him on cam. And my heart isnt on the line sooo fast taken it slow as possible. Which he seems to understand. Thanks again. EmmitWinchell Posted at 8:10 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Well I met the woman I am marrying online and we talk online all the time as well as for meeting we have yet to do that but I trust her with all of my heart and she has told me the same as has her two brothers but we have also been together for 8 months so talk get to know each other but becareful. the pre Posted at 8:08 am on Aug. 10, 2008 def sounding like lust... i'd take a friend w. you if you go to him ManicD Posted at 8:06 am on Aug. 10, 2008 no, problem, i met someone i knew off here under much the same theory, just leave a note on your side at home saying where you have gone when you go meet him, if anything happened, people know where to start looking Cheeserock Posted at 8:06 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Well... its all a bit dodgy... but if you do decide to meet with him, make sure its in a public place like a cafe or something, and make sure a friend is with you. samanthaafacex Posted at 8:05 am on Aug. 10, 2008 its unsafe. why do you think there are so many shows on chatrooms and meeting people online. people are different when they're online as compared to in person. Nobodys Listening Posted at 8:05 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Just make your you take the common pre-cautions when meeting him and don't do anything your gut tells you not to do. I'm not going to judge you. Believe me, I know the ends and outs of relationship like that far too well. It can end very badly or it can blossom into a amazingly beautiful thing. Of course there is the chance that both of those things happen... but I'd rather not worry you and I'd say it's lust. Get to know him before you put your heart on the line. Kitty Kiska Posted at 8:05 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Quote: from EllaYeah at 8:01 am on Aug. 10, 2008 If you meet him, go with a friend. If you seriously wish to do so...i know i have the same but its a year long thing and i want to see him to be sure if it will be the same Most recent 15 of 25 previous replies displayed.