Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Should I ask her out..... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post metrico Posted at 11:33 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 Okay so there's this girl I've known for a while, since the beginning of high school. I wouldn't call us especially close but we're friendly, have some paralleling interests and whatnot. We go to different local colleges and I've always thought rather highly of her, even back in high school. I don't see her very often at all but out of all the people I know currently..she's really the only one I would ask out, I think. She's single..but I have no idea if she'd be even interested in me much...should I just send her a Facebook message on how I feel or something?  That sounds like it's out of the blue, I don't want it to be weird....I've never told anyone I've liked them before in any manner.

Replies helloworld Posted at 6:03 am on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from metrico at 2:43 am on Nov. 3, 2008 =/ I feel like that would be awkward in itself... to ask her out of the blue to go do something? It's not. There's nothing wrong with signaling interest by asking her to go do something. Or maybe that's just me, I'm not terribly used to asking people to go do things. I guess it couldn't hurt.... It certainly couldn't. Do it. Imessedup2 Posted at 12:06 am on Nov. 3, 2008 Only a true pussy would contact somebody through Facebook and lay down some stalkerish bullshit about how much they like someone. If you have any balls at all, you would contact the girl directly and ask her if she would like to do something. Have something specific in mind so it doesn't just hang out there as an indefinite maybe. And for god's sake, save all that how much I admire and adore you bullshit until you actually get to know the girl and have something going. Otherwise, you sound like some sniveling twit who's never even seen a girl before. metrico Posted at 11:43 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 =/ I feel like that would be awkward in itself... to ask her out of the blue to go do something? Or maybe that's just me, I'm not terribly used to asking people to go do things. I guess it couldn't hurt.... helloworld Posted at 11:37 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 I wouldn't send her a Facebook message on how you feel. Only if you're extremely lucky and she happens to feel exactly the same will that work. Otherwise I don't think it's a good idea. It'll create a sense of awkwardness that'll pretty much shoot down anything else from happening. I would ask her if she wants to hang out (maybe go to a movie, bowling, who knows). zombieman5 Posted at 11:37 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 don't do it in a message, do it in person. hubbabubba52 Posted at 11:36 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 yeah, just tell her, if u guys r close friends shell understand. akSamiRae Posted at 11:35 pm on Nov. 2, 2008 Go for it. All 7 previous replies displayed.