Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Does anybody care anymore about making REAL friends in college?? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 9:19 am on June 14, 2008 Back in high school, I actually met some really great and selfless people and many of them genuinely helped me. But as soon as I came to college, I met ALL sorts of people and personalities. And I hate to say it, but it seems like nobody here values true friendship. Sure, I have TONS of people that I go out partying with on the weekends but during the weekdays everything that they do makes me think they have their own agenda. Nobody is willing to help anyone. Why is that? Isn't college the time for making real close friendships? Why does nobody care? One time a friend's friend came over and didn't have a place to sleep. I actually went and pulled out my huge heavy mattress into the living room just so he could have a place to sleep. He looked at me surprised and said "you know, nobody would ever do something like this." And I responded "really? wouldn't all friends do this?" I mean, I can't believe he was surprised at what I did. Does nobody care about friends anymore?

Replies Majo Posted at 10:29 am on June 14, 2008 I actually experienced the opposite. I didn't have anyone in high school but met some pretty nice people in college. bluskypeChris Posted at 9:29 am on June 14, 2008 I don't have any friend so I don't know what you guy are talking about, sorry. Cloudy Posted at 9:23 am on June 14, 2008 lol college is funny you get new friends every term and out with the old...I hate it but oh well albaniaXOXO Posted at 9:21 am on June 14, 2008 nope Jadien Posted at 9:21 am on June 14, 2008 Agreed. College blows. Micus Posted at 9:21 am on June 14, 2008 I had some people who I thought were genuine friends but never really pulled through on important shit. I've met others who I genuinely care about and know they care about me. They come in all varieties it seems. Natsy Posted at 9:21 am on June 14, 2008 because its the small window of opportunity to have fun and go wild and not think about other people, because in a few years they are gonna be with a job and possibly a family and won't get a chance to be irresponsible, so they're doing it now :) xx isobel Posted at 9:20 am on June 14, 2008 Yes, of course. I made awesome AND true friends in college. There's the people I'm friends with on a social basis, we go partying together, etc. But then there's the few special ones, who I consider my real friends. All 8 previous replies displayed.