Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Would you be freaked out? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post EmilyAnn Posted at 12:15 pm on Aug. 9, 2008 Would you be freaked out if you were sleeping in your boyfriend's room and you woke up to find him masturbating to pornographic videos on his computer? :( Edit: To verify...while you are in the room with him, only a few feet away!

Replies fhsyearbook1 Posted at 11:52 am on Sep. 12, 2008 yes because if he is in that much need he could wake me up and for that matter even if i wasn't in the mood i would not want him doing that in front of me Chino Posted at 4:21 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 I want to make it clear that I don't tease anybody, I would consider that messed up.  It's not like I seduce them to the point of having them as horny as hell and then going "Nope, sorry, I am waiting until marriage".  These girls know how I am and if they know they are not getting sex from me then they could look somewhere else.   Oh yeah, we could talk about it forever haha!  But yeah, your story is something I thought about before.  Like I told you, being a virgin doesn't mean I don't date, hook up, approach a girl who I never met before, etc.  So I can imagine when I go out with one girl who is popular, sexy, etc.  Suddenly go out with a guy (me) who refuses to have sex with her.  Not only would she go home with blue ovaries and frustrated but with a damaged ego :( .  I guess it teaches them a lesson too. Oh man, I have so many stories like this *blushing* .  I guess I'll share them later :) . EmilyAnn Posted at 3:24 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 Quote: from Chino at 5:10 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 Emily, My turn to share lol .  But this time, it involved a girl masturbating in a room where a guy was present, me. Well, as I have said before, I have decided to wait until marriage to have sex blah blah blah.  Anyways, one time I was taking my girl back home after a date.  She knew way before we even started going out about my conviction to wait until marriage.  Anyways, her parents were not home so outside her house we kissed goodbye but that kiss got a bit long.  She just jumped to my seat and reclined my seat and just started to rub herself at me and all.  It was enjoyable until I told her I had to go and that her parents could be back any minute.  She went back to her seat and just started talking about whatever.  Then she offered to give me something to drink so I accepted and once inside her house we started making out again a bit more passionately.  We ended up in the living room when I felt her hand trying to unzip my jeans.  I removed her hand and put it on my back as we kissed.  She did it like 2 times and begged me to the point of even crying, for sex.  I told her it would be best if I went back home but she pulled me back and we continued.  I felt her hand going down but guess what...it was not to unzip me or anything but to...MASTURBATE RIGHT THERE as we kissed.   It didn't freak me out.  I mean, almost every girl and guy masturbate anyways.  I was just a bit surprised that she went at it as we kissed. So yeah, we have lots of interesting horny girls/guys in this world   . Wow, that's...interesting. That girl must've been pretty desperate to get some! Haha. I have a friend who is gorgeous and has always gotten what she's wanted. If she wants a guy, she gets him. If she wants sex with that guy, she gets it. However, last summer she was living with her boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend) and she encountered a problem that she had never run into before. This guy actually refused sex with her pretty frequently, and I knew that it just made her feel terrible about herself. Here she was, used to getting sex whenever she wanted. What a high self-esteem someone must have when they get anything they want, always. Anyway, finally, one time when her bf refused sex she got so upset that she just started masturbating in bed next to him. Kind of reminds me of your story. It's a little weird, but understandable... Lol, we could just talk about masturbation forever... Chino Posted at 3:10 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 Emily, My turn to share lol . But this time, it involved a girl masturbating in a room where a guy was present, me. Well, as I have said before, I have decided to wait until marriage to have sex blah blah blah.  Anyways, one time I was taking my girl back home after a date.  She knew way before we even started going out about my conviction to wait until marriage.  Anyways, her parents were not home so outside her house we kissed goodbye but that kiss got a bit long.  She just jumped to my seat and reclined my seat and just started to rub herself at me and all.  It was enjoyable until I told her I had to go and that her parents could be back any minute.  She went back to her seat and just started talking about whatever.  Then she offered to give me something to drink so I accepted and once inside her house we started making out again a bit more passionately.  We ended up in the living room when I felt her hand trying to unzip my jeans.  I removed her hand and put it on my back as we kissed.  She did it like 2 times and begged me to the point of even crying, for sex.  I told her it would be best if I went back home but she pulled me back and we continued.  I felt her hand going down but guess what...it was not to unzip me or anything but to...MASTURBATE RIGHT THERE as we kissed.   It didn't freak me out.  I mean, almost every girl and guy masturbate anyways.  I was just a bit surprised that she went at it as we kissed. So yeah, we have lots of interesting horny girls/guys in this world   . EmilyAnn Posted at 2:55 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 Quote: from JennyColada at 12:59 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 The other night I was super tired. I was horny, but waaaay too tired to have sex. My boyfriend was really horny, and not so tired, so he told me he was going to go online and check some porn (so, I knew about it, so it's a bit different). Anyway, I fell asleep, and woke up to him next to me jerking it (he had thrown a porno on the TV). It was a bit odd. It didn't freak me out, it just confused me at first (since when I first woke up I wasn't sure what was going on). I think if I hadn't known about it beforehand it might weird me out a bit. I wanted to offer to help him and all that, but I was SOOOO tired. I don't want him to feel like I don't please him or am not interested in him sexually (but I know he doesn't think that, still, the thought crosses my mind!). Ok, I'm rambling. In short: No, I wouldn't be freaked out by his masturbation, but I'd be confused, especially if I wasn't aware that he was horny to begin with. Hmm, yeah. Confusion is a good word for what I felt. I totally understand that he masturbates, as I said before, but it was just like "WTF?!" And actually seeing it in action for the first time freaked me out. There's a difference between knowing your significant other masturbates and actually catching them doing it. But anyway, thanks for the response...that makes me feel a little less weird about it, knowing that someone else has basically shared the same boat. JennyColada Posted at 10:59 am on Sep. 11, 2008 The other night I was super tired. I was horny, but waaaay too tired to have sex. My boyfriend was really horny, and not so tired, so he told me he was going to go online and check some porn (so, I knew about it, so it's a bit different). Anyway, I fell asleep, and woke up to him next to me jerking it (he had thrown a porno on the TV). It was a bit odd. It didn't freak me out, it just confused me at first (since when I first woke up I wasn't sure what was going on). I think if I hadn't known about it beforehand it might weird me out a bit. I wanted to offer to help him and all that, but I was SOOOO tired. I don't want him to feel like I don't please him or am not interested in him sexually (but I know he doesn't think that, still, the thought crosses my mind!). Ok, I'm rambling. In short: No, I wouldn't be freaked out by his masturbation, but I'd be confused, especially if I wasn't aware that he was horny to begin with. EmilyAnn Posted at 10:38 am on Sep. 11, 2008 Quote: from Squibble at 12:27 pm on Sep. 11, 2008 Actually, that might be kind of well, hot... but then afterwards I'd probably be like you and overthink it! Haha, yeah. I overthink everything. It's a blessing and a curse... Squibble Posted at 10:27 am on Sep. 11, 2008 Actually, that might be kind of well, hot... but then afterwards I'd probably be like you and overthink it! EmilyAnn Posted at 7:44 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from Chino at 9:13 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from EmilyAnn at 7:00 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from Chino at 8:48 pm on Sep. 10, 2008     Hehe. You're fun to discuss with.           Not the first time we do       Yeah, its just self-control and having my mind set already regardless of having girls on a date get pissed at me or making fun of me telling me I am gay or whatever.      Sad   Those girls are idiots... Sometimes even spreading it around school saying that I am gay, afraid of girls, etc.  But guess what, that still doesn't change my mind about my desicion.  It's a bit dumb because while they spread it around it just makes them look pretty bad because they didn't get the sex they wanted so they were sent back home with blue ovaries (something like blue balls for guys lol).  Oh well, that's life. Yeah, wow. They are just making themselves look shitty. I'm assuming you're in high school? If that's the case, that shit will all blow over soon. I'm soooo glad to be out of high school. All of that bullshit is over now and life is peachy. :) Chino Posted at 7:13 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from EmilyAnn at 7:00 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from Chino at 8:48 pm on Sep. 10, 2008    Hehe. You're fun to discuss with.      Not the first time we do  Yeah, its just self-control and having my mind set already regardless of having girls on a date get pissed at me or making fun of me telling me I am gay or whatever. Sad   Those girls are idiots... Sometimes even spreading it around school saying that I am gay, afraid of girls, etc.  But guess what, that still doesn't change my mind about my desicion.  It's a bit dumb because while they spread it around it just makes them look pretty bad because they didn't get the sex they wanted so they were sent back home with blue ovaries (something like blue balls for guys lol).  Oh well, that's life. EmilyAnn Posted at 7:00 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from Chino at 8:48 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Hehe. You're fun to discuss with.   Not the first time we do   Yeah, its just self-control and having my mind set already regardless of having girls on a date get pissed at me or making fun of me telling me I am gay or whatever.   Sad Those girls are idiots... Chino Posted at 6:48 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Hehe. You're fun to discuss with. Not the first time we do Yeah, its just self-control and having my mind set already regardless of having girls on a date get pissed at me or making fun of me telling me I am gay or whatever.   EmilyAnn Posted at 6:44 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from Chino at 7:03 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Fair enough.  I agree.  It's just self control like it has been said and I think I have some of that.  Virgin by desicion.   Hehe. You're fun to discuss with. That's awesome that you have that kind of self-control. My boyfriend waited to lose his virginity until the age of 21...to me :) And no, he wasn't lying... Chino Posted at 5:03 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Fair enough.  I agree.  It's just self control like it has been said and I think I have some of that.  Virgin by desicion.   EmilyAnn Posted at 1:32 pm on Sep. 10, 2008 Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 7:33 am on Sep. 10, 2008 If it was you who woke up horny at 3am and he was sleeping all nice and quiet because next day he had to work, wouldn't you masturbate as well? Know what I'd do in that situation? Control myself. You don't have to masturbate the second you get horny. You know what I do in that situation? Curl up next to my guy, and cuddling suffices, far more than sex. You know what I do in that situation? Wait for him. If girls can do it, so can guys. I love you right now, Tigressa. Very well said. That isn't very good logic, Chino, I'm sorry. If you got horny in the middle of class or work, would you just start masturbating? If you were visiting your Grandma and you got horny, would you just start masturbating right there? There are certain circumstances that are NOT okay to just start masturbating. And in my situation, I don't think it was right of him. Most recent 15 of 67 previous replies displayed.