Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic hair there Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post AthenaRuth Posted at 1:38 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 i have brown, curly hair there and i'm a girl and i think i would feel weird and masculine with my cute blond boyfriend who probably has light hair there and i'd just feel so manly...because darker seems manlierrrrr somehow. should i shave, wax? bleach? sounds painful and embarrassing? any alternatives?

Replies TigressaLynnMae Posted at 12:19 pm on Sep. 3, 2008 not a bald pre-pubescent child Not everyone who shaves looks like that. That's just a social concept. And if your guy wants you to do something you're not used to doing, whether it be shaving, or keeping the hair there, then that guy has no right being in your life. You do things for yourself, no for anyoen else. His opinion does not matter. Nor does yours, with the hair upon his body. Like me. I hate men with hair on their arms, legs, balls, chest, face. But I'm not going to go up to my guy, and be like, "Hey, you, shave." nik1 Posted at 12:06 pm on Sep. 3, 2008 How silly! Don't you think he will be as intrigued by your hair color as you are his?   There is nothing more beautiful and sexy as a woman that looks like a woman, not a bald pre-pubescent child.  Spruce it up a bit, trim it up real good and he will be a wild man. ApatheticKiller Posted at 1:05 pm on Sep. 2, 2008 Quote: from Zlog at 2:22 am on Aug. 28, 2008 just trim it up. If you start out shaved he'll expect it that way lol Ha, that's true I was already shaved when I met my current boyfriend, and now i feel a weird obligation to always be perfectly shaved. But as for the PAAAAIIINNN response, I don't think shaving hurts.  I've never waxed, so I don't know about that.  I would imagine it would hurt, but I know shaving doesn't hurt me. Chino Posted at 10:50 am on Aug. 30, 2008 Quote: from adam12 at 7:39 pm on Aug. 29, 2008 i have no idea what percentage of females in a locker room are shaved. but i'm curious about it. I was talking to a girl about it, on how overrated it is to shave and people just want to fit in and proclaim they shave when they simply don't.  She is int he swimming team and water polo so I asked her if all girls are shaved and she was like "No way!" I mean, she travels around competing, goes to the gym, etc.  And is yet to remember a girl completely shaved.  Maybe one or two but the rest were natural or trimmed.  Natural doesn't mean dirty.  A girl can shave her legs, armpits, bikini line, etc.  And keep her hair down there nicely groomed and clean.  People just make a big deal out of it really. adam12 Posted at 7:39 pm on Aug. 29, 2008 i have no idea what percentage of females in a locker room are shaved.  but i'm curious about it. Jake08 Posted at 10:45 am on Aug. 28, 2008 I would wax or shave. getforless Posted at 2:54 am on Aug. 28, 2008 painful ! Zlog Posted at 2:22 am on Aug. 28, 2008 just trim it up. If you start out shaved he'll expect it that way lol yodian14 Posted at 2:12 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 trim Chino Posted at 12:43 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Shaving is so overrated.  Many girls say they shave just to fit in and to prevent people from going "eeewwww" but next time you are at a locker/shower room at your local gym or wherever, tell me how many shaved girls do you see around you, see what I mean? itoldyou Posted at 8:46 pm on Aug. 26, 2008 just shave it off steven7 Posted at 11:30 am on Aug. 26, 2008 pain is beauty TigressaLynnMae Posted at 9:46 am on Aug. 26, 2008 You should just shave it off. Alot of guys don't like for a girl to have pubes anyways... And you know what's the problem with that? The guy's opinion matters not. IslandAtWar Posted at 9:30 am on Aug. 26, 2008 As long as you're comfortable with it, he probably will be too. When it comes to going down on a girl though, trimming would probably be appreciated. Some guys might not mind the muff, but some don't exactly love getting little curly hairs stuck on their tongue. stephy8618 Posted at 6:25 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 yes.  lose the hair down there.  betcha he'd prefer it that way. Most recent 15 of 27 previous replies displayed.