Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Sexless Relationship Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 4:19 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 My boyfriend told me he didn't want to have sex because he just didn't enjoy it that much. He also said I meant a lot to him and that he didn't think he could commit to anyone forever, or be with any one person forever. What does this mean? And what do guys mean when they say to a girl that she means a lot to them?

Replies Ladybird Posted at 1:26 am on Oct. 16, 2008 Quote: from mendingheart518 at 3:20 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 It sounds like he cares about you, but maybe not ready for a commitment agreed mcodeath Posted at 3:19 am on Oct. 13, 2008 Quote: from allsmiles at 6:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 Men don't normally speak with hidden messages. It means what it reads as. This. I hate when people always assume we talk in some crazed code. hithere Posted at 5:55 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 he's saying you're his temporary first choice LittleBombs Posted at 4:28 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 He cares alot about you, and is maybe scared that sex will ruin things. hollenda 08 Posted at 4:27 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 it means he dosent ever want 2 get married  or wht ever thats from a boyfriend who said that 2 meh Y3s51 Posted at 4:26 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 he likes u but maybe he thinks u dontnoe how 2 have sex xannabellax Posted at 4:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 okiee'so read rwad a book once and stuf.. and in the book this  chick wanted to fuck her bf really bad and everytime she thought it was going to happen he ended up saying nooo and so later she found out he was cheatingon her and sleeping with her friend...soo maybe he is cheating on youuuu...heheh...talk to him bout that   be like: "hoe!  you better not be cheating on meh!  i will seriously kick yoo asss!" allsmiles Posted at 4:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 Men don't normally speak with hidden messages. It means what it reads as. Chiefette Posted at 4:23 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 He cares about you, but he doesn't love you and he doesn't see you in his future, and he wants to see other people. emo asian girl Posted at 4:21 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 probably he doesnt just want the relationship to be about sex... so yea.. and it means yoiu mean alot to him... its pretty self-explanatory. switchfoot52 Posted at 4:21 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 he's not a man whore. and he actually cares about u. mendingheart518 Posted at 4:20 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 It sounds like he cares about you, but maybe not ready for a commitment Hyacinth Posted at 4:20 pm on Oct. 12, 2008 It means he wants to fuck other people. All 13 previous replies displayed.