Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic After my first 3 days at college.. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 10:04 am on Sep. 18, 2008 I feel kind of left out. On the first day I hung out with some kid I met over facebook and his roommate and we got drunk the first 2 nights and had fun. All of the sudden his roommate is like "aw fuck you brought him?" when i come, so now im just kinda ignoring them. Now im alone and feel kinda alone in this huge campus (i dont know anyone really cool to hang out with).. I'm gonna goto the gym, but I used to be friends with EVERYONE in high school and now in college everyone is finding their own little group, and im not in any of them =(

Replies RachLeigh13 Posted at 11:05 am on Sep. 19, 2008 Don't fret... its only the first couple of days at college. You'll find someone to hang out with soon enough. I suggest you start getting involved with clubs on campus. Thats the easiest way to make friends and meet new people. It's hard from going from (And yes, this is so cliched) the big fish in the little pond, to a little fish in the big pond. You'll find your niche and soon enough have plenty of friends. my name sucks Posted at 10:11 am on Sep. 18, 2008 i had the same problem, i met this girl and hung out with her and her friend and everything was great. but then they ditched me. but its been 3 weeks now and I've made friends and everythings awesome. i didn't fit in the first couple of weeks but I'm starting to fit in now. just try to hang out with the people you click with rather than the people who just seem cool. DirtyPeanut Posted at 10:07 am on Sep. 18, 2008 You just need to focus more on being a little more confident,  maybe going to clubs or maybe taking part in any sports, the gym is a good way to meet people. Dont worry, you're new, so it will take a little time to get used to it :) Natsy Posted at 10:07 am on Sep. 18, 2008 damn... that was me last week lol xx 0h h3ll n0 Posted at 10:06 am on Sep. 18, 2008 aww..well im sure you will make some good friends sooner or later. it has only been 3 days! Dont Notice Me Posted at 10:06 am on Sep. 18, 2008 awwwwww so sad. MiNNiCK Posted at 10:05 am on Sep. 18, 2008 It's only three days after...you won't establish groups that fast. There's a huge campus like you said. Talk to your classmates, at the dining hall, at school events, etc. There are tons of places to meet people and there's no excuse for not finding at least someone to talk to. All 7 previous replies displayed.