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tenchi1084 Posted at 10:37 pm on May 7, 2008
the wonderful people I hang out with at the college that I told you about...the huge variety of "friends" I thought were just one  of the most amazing folks on the planet...

I found out they absolutely despise me...at least a good handful of them.  

what is bad about it, is that I don't know why...

I am completely honest with them, I don't tell them any lies, and I'm completely up front with them.  If I have something to say about someone, I tell that person.

and if something is on my mind, I'll be honest about it.

If I get confused about the conversations(which is very often), I admit it.

yet now some of them are trying to make others "ditch" me when I show up at the table.  

I don't know what I did wrong, if I did something wrong.  I don't think they're bad people, though some are questionable.  I just think they're all unique in their own way.

I'm going up to the table tomorrow and issue a formal statement to the group, or at least wait until the next club meeting.

I'll say "if you don't want me to stick around, I'll leave the table dweller's group and the Realm Runners Club(which is a college funded club), in hopes that I incite no malice against anyone."

I don't mind some of the club members hating me...I just don't want them to all of a sudden feel obligated to put up with me.  sure, the club is a college funded club, therefore they cannot refuse me at any event.  However, I was a loner before them, and I would rather be a loner than to cause tension.

...I don't even know what I did wrong.  I know I'm a clutz at times, and at other times, I'm so confused that I just outwardly admit it and just move onto another conversation by other group members.

But if me being me is what the problem is, I can't change who I am so someone will like me.  I'd rather be alone again.

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Oregon503 Posted at 2:38 am on May 16, 2008
some people who are overly honest or blunt can be taken the wrong way. some don't know when to stop. and it gets annoying. but there could be thousands of reasons why people don't like you. it could be as simple as someone saying "i dont like :blank:" and someone going along with it because they would rather it be you then them.