Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic white girls Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post I heart nubs Posted at 2:21 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Dude I'll flat out admit that I am generally way more attracted to white girls than any other type of girl. It's like for me every 4/5 white girls I see I find attractive in some way. Other girls, not so much. I have no idea what it is. No idea if it's just me. It's almost rare for me to see attractive girls of any other race in my days. Maybe it's just the way I am. However theres one big problem. I am not white. I have very light skin, but my features indicate that I'm not white. Not saying that I'm ugly. I actually think I'm pretty decent looking, I hope. And I instinctively know that most white girls prefer white guys. This kills me, and prevents me from even trying with most girls that I'm really into. I feel like I am twice as likely to get shot down, just because I'm not white. So I dunno where to go with this. I've been trying to find girls that are like me that I am attracted to, but I'm having a hard time doing that. Call me stupid, but this is the way I feel.

Replies victoria4951ct Posted at 8:42 am on Jan. 15, 2009 Theirs nothing wrong with being attracted to white girls... Be yourself and who cares what others think jakelong Posted at 9:43 pm on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from Bud2400 at 1:37 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Oh sure it can - the only problem with attraction is that much of it is very subliminal. Umm you can explain what's sublimal? (j/k) And you know, another big one is that always goes unperceived are phermones. I doubt it would factor into this case as it's equal for all humans, yeah I was gonna say..> but phermones do make a bit of a difference. ooh yeah phermones baby! I sure know when my baby's in heat yeah man. Ok wait im getting a boner now wtf... fantazia Posted at 6:12 pm on Jan. 14, 2009 You probably need to feel loved and validated by white people, therefore you gravitate towards white girls. This is my opinion..don't go medieval on me..lol Quirky QTpie Posted at 4:34 am on Jan. 14, 2009 i think you have issues with your race , i eman i you can only see the beauty in white girls versus other girls some of which are your own race then i reckon you have got SERIOUS issues.. I feel sorry for you self-hate will not get you anywhere and it won't attract other people to you. I hope you can sort it out though Much luv Bud2400 Posted at 1:37 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from jakelong at 9:53 pm on Jan. 13, 2009 Attraction can't be explained. Oh sure it can - the only problem with attraction is that much of it is very subliminal. He's probably been conditioned to prefer white girls.  This could be the result of a greater familiarity with them, a more positive view of them than non-white girls, a white girl or two he had experience with in the past (whether through friendship, a crush, or whatever), could be that they tend to have features he likes more (which could be perpetuated by the media), and among other things. And you know, another big one is that always goes unperceived are phermones.  I doubt it would factor into this case as it's equal for all humans, but phermones do make a bit of a difference.  For example, men tend to prefer women who were menstruating based on how they smelled over women who weren't.  Women also pick up on this over time and tend to synchronize their periods.  Women in dorms and sororities tend to have their periods much closer together by the end of the school year than at the beginning.  An interesting tidbit. Hekkrid Posted at 12:56 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Nothing wrong with it man. I do know that the majority of white chicks I know only date white dudes, but on the other hand I've seen a good bit of hot ass white chicks who only date darker skinned guys. Most white girls like white guys with tans, but if your a light skinned black guy or hispanic... You basically just got a natural tan. I'm sure you'll find a chick who digs interracial dating. If not, then you should come to where I live... I've even seen a good bit of white chicks with solid black dudes. jakelong Posted at 9:53 pm on Jan. 13, 2009 Theres' nothing wrong or unusual with that. Attraction can't be explained. It doesn't matter and its cool. insurgent Posted at 6:02 am on Jan. 13, 2009 I heart nubs: ^ A+ for that advice. He basically called you a racist, albeit he softened the remark with a little humor and friendly advice.  So, what are you thanking him for again, when the rest of us have commented in the same regard? I heart nubs Posted at 6:20 am on Jan. 12, 2009 ^ A+ for that advice. Jazzy Jeff Posted at 11:12 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 The last black girl I dated cheated me out of 100+ bucks and has slept (told me she has) slept with Lil'Wayne. It's times like this where it can be tempting to knock an entire group of girls....but then you look at the others and realize they suck too. Not all black girls are trouble...was one cute black girl who worked at a Hot Topic I met..but I never did get her number even after she made her interest obvious. Such a chump. That said, I don't really get where you're coming from as far as the attractiveness goes. But it's quite obvious fate would have me end up with a white or asian girl seeing as the stuff I'm into. Just a lot more compatibility (race/ethnicity) has zip to do with it. Too many black and even latina girls in my area knock a guy down because he's not a G. Not all but a good majority prefer the sort. I don't see where you're having difficulty though..never had much trouble attracting girls who are white. One chick back in Highschool did tell me she's never found a black guy attractive..pretty much to my face with the obvious intention of wanting me to hear it. She was pretty chubby though so I'm not sure if she wanted the feeling of being desired along with the power to reject or what. She did say Nelly was hot previously so she's a real ass-talker. Obviously she didn't get the memo not all us blackies like it extra thick. I think you're insecure about not being white so you don't approach white girls in fear of being rejected because you're whatever it is you are. Just do it...if a girl is shallow enough to not date you for the sole reason you're not white, bitch isn't worth bothering with in the first place. Thats how you can easily spot a cunt. Preference Smeference...this isn't a topic of attractiveness it's a topic of not dating someone because of their ethnicity regardless of how great they are or make you feel which is *GASP* racism. Glad you're acquainted with the dating hierarchy though...get used to it. Colored bastards don't let it get 'em down we're resilient like that duawg. SpRiNgS Posted at 4:06 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 so should I play that song by mighty casey? my homeboy is kinda the same way as you cept he's not exaclty lightskinned per se' and he likes to call em snowbunnies Moonscar Posted at 4:03 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from I heart nubs at 2:41 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from Moonscar at 2:40 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 I find people of different races to be more sexually hot. I mean I find that white women can also be sexy. Though I get a more exotic feeling from African women, Asian women, South American women etc.  But I believe being sexy has nothing to do with race. The ones who say "Oh she's only hot because she's white" are just trying to promote their racial pride which can be a bad thing at times =/ Yes, but that's not at all what I am trying to say. didn't say you were. LoveKay Posted at 3:54 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 As long as you are not racist, then there is nothing wrong with this. A person can't help who they become attracted to. insurgent Posted at 3:14 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 I heart nubs: dude I'm not a racist ok. How about you get a dictionary and re-read what I just said? I heart nubs Posted at 3:11 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from insurgent at 3:09 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 I heart nubs: lol. It wasn't for nothing. I read every word. Color is just that: color. In no way does it dictate behavior, qualities or any cognitive process whatsoever. Mochaa is right, though. There's a fine line between aesthetic preference and racial discrimination, I think. dude I'm not a racist ok. Most recent 15 of 48 previous replies displayed.