Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Fuck you idiots. All of you. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Lady Catastrophic Posted at 4:56 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 My boyfriend's mother has no right to tell me what to do with my body. Period. End of story. Her son is 19, and I am not her daughter. I can't afford pills with all these fucking bills I have right now. I practice safe sex with condoms. Yes I am 15 and living on my own, but don't tell me that I shouldn't live on my own because it wasn't a fucking choice. Fuck all you idiots. Seriously. HOW MANY OF YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO FUCKING LIVE ON YOUR OWN THIS YOUNG? Not many of you immature idiots, who talk out of their ass. So fuck off. /rant

Replies Acid World Posted at 7:09 am on Nov. 4, 2008 Is the mother saying it in a criticizing way, like "Whats wrong with you? Why are you living on your own blah blah blah" or did she say it in a way like "Honey, I just wanted to tell you I think what you're doing is the wrong way"? Either way she is imposing herself. It it's the first way then yeah, shes just a stupid bitch. But if it's the second way I wouldn't get to uppity about it. Shes just doing that paternal thing. Spice Posted at 4:16 am on Nov. 4, 2008 Personally, I commend what you're doing =] At 15, it's hard enough. With school & work as well. Stnading on your own two feet is hard enough at a young age, never mind having to still go to school. But you should think about some discounts or something, it's not her place, no. But could you handle possibly getting prgnant? I reckon you and your boyfriend have talked about the what ifs, and buts because you sound mature enough to have done so. Just realise going on the pill as soon as it's convenient and affordable IS a good idea. [btw, I now <3 free healthcare] Imessedup2 Posted at 2:36 am on Nov. 4, 2008 Quote: from xsharpi at 4:59 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from S K A at 5:57 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 How are you legally doing that? Please share.   My mother gave my boyfriend temporary guardianship, that has been noterized, so that I may live with him since she didn't want me anymore thank you. That's interesting you see. Because by supposedly giving your boyfriend guardianship over you, she placed him in "a position of trust" over you. Now here's the really nice part. Since he's "a person of trust" over you under Colorado law, the age of consent gets raised to 17 years of age and the 10 year exception you were talking about doesn't apply. So you see, this so-called notarized temporary guardianship actually has fucked him more than he's fucking you! Nice. Chocolate Thunda Posted at 8:51 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 I support you. rufoo Posted at 8:33 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Financially, I cant live off on my own right now. T__T But back to the subject. ignore that bitch that your boyfriend calls mother. Its not her decision. Its yours. She doesnt own you. you can do the what the fuck you want to do. You seem like a responsible woman. But then again, lets just all hope  for better daysss [[ PPArdon my excessive profanity]] humanivorous Posted at 7:42 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Thanks, you too. Now where's my sammich? Lady Catastrophic Posted at 7:35 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from humanivorous at 8:20 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 k great. now get back in the kitchen You are a complete loser. humanivorous Posted at 7:20 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 k great. now get back in the kitchen junose Posted at 5:21 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Being able to do all that at 15 is amazing. Honestly, you seem like a really smart girl, managing school + work and paying bills, that's alot of stress on you at a young age. Your boyfriend's mom doesn't have a say in anything, especially to someone who's living on their own and managing an adult life. :) Lady Catastrophic Posted at 5:18 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from Lulu Nobody at 6:13 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Personally, while I still am technically under my parents' care, I couldn't imagine living on my own yet, because I know the job I'd have would be a shitty, minimum wage job that I'd be making just barely over $8.00/hr. That's shitty fucking pay, to be honest, unless I got incredibly lucky, it'd be hard. My brother is working a job where he is making much more than that, but is possibly the least frugal person I know, therefore his money just disappears and he has to scrape his ass to pay for things, when, theoretically, he should be just fine. To be out on your own so young and to manage bills, it takes being incredibly frugal and smart with your money so you don't have to suffer more than you are. So, in a way, I commend you. You seem to understand the consequences of the decisions you make and try your best to be as safe as can be. And really, there's not much more you can do than that. Accidents happen, and if you're doing all that you can to be safe, then it's just plain bad luck. Thank you. All the people who have some sense in their head seem to understand why idiots who judge me frustrate me. I work too damn hard to hear people say shitty things to me. I practice safe sex, with condoms. That is a whole lot better then most. Lulu Nobody Posted at 5:13 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Personally, while I still am technically under my parents' care, I couldn't imagine living on my own yet, because I know the job I'd have would be a shitty, minimum wage job that I'd be making just barely over $8.00/hr. That's shitty fucking pay, to be honest, unless I got incredibly lucky, it'd be hard. My brother is working a job where he is making much more than that, but is possibly the least frugal person I know, therefore his money just disappears and he has to scrape his ass to pay for things, when, theoretically, he should be just fine. To be out on your own so young and to manage bills, it takes being incredibly frugal and smart with your money so you don't have to suffer more than you are. So, in a way, I commend you. You seem to understand the consequences of the decisions you make and try your best to be as safe as can be. And really, there's not much more you can do than that. Accidents happen, and if you're doing all that you can to be safe, then it's just plain bad luck. quiteanart Posted at 5:13 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from xsharpi at 5:10 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from quiteanart at 6:09 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 I said she sounds trashy, not that she is. And it's an opinion.    Now quit getting your undies all in a bunch ^^    Have a good one honey. I sound trashy HOW? Why because I have sex with the guy I have been dating for half a year? Or maybe it is because I live on my own? You have an opinion with nothing to back it up, so shut the fuck up. Lol. Ok =P Lady Catastrophic Posted at 5:10 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from quiteanart at 6:09 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 I said she sounds trashy, not that she is. And it's an opinion. Now quit getting your undies all in a bunch ^^ Have a good one honey. I sound trashy HOW? Why because I have sex with the guy I have been dating for half a year? Or maybe it is because I live on my own? You have an opinion with nothing to back it up, so shut the fuck up. MiNNiCK Posted at 5:10 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from Lulu Nobody at 8:09 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from Buu at 8:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from xsharpi at 6:00 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from Innuendo Girl at 5:59 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Ouch, that sucks. Tell her to fuck off.     FYI, though, I'm not sure if it's all Planned Parenthood locations, but if you can prove to them that you make less than $400/wk. you can get free birth control.      I make more then that.      So....if you don't qualify for that because you make too much, then you're saying you can't spare $26 a month for birth control? Just wondering. It adds up. It doesn't seem like much at the time, but if you are struggling to pay bills and support yourself in only just your BASIC needs, dishing out $26 a month for a medication can really hit you hard. You have to realize that, even if it doesn't seem like a lot, you have to put yourself in the shoes of the person who says they can't afford it. You don't know her income, and you don't know the exact cost of the bills she pays and how much money she actually has to spend on herself that isn't going towards basic needs. To us, kids who are not living on our own, maybe $26 dollars isn't a lot, but to her, maybe it is. 26 a month is a lot. All that is totally true MiNNiCK Posted at 5:09 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from quiteanart at 8:09 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from Minnick at 5:06 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from quiteanart at 8:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from Minnick at 5:03 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 Quote: from quiteanart at 8:01 pm on Nov. 3, 2008 You sound trashy xD       How the fuck are you saying that? You don't know shit   And you do? =O    Yes, I do. I know you're idiot for posting that in relevance to nothing I said she sounds trashy, not that she is. And it's an opinion. Now quit getting your undies all in a bunch ^^ Have a good one honey. How does what she said even remotely sound trashy? 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