Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic WHY, WHY, WHY!? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Monroe Posted at 6:37 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Why have unprotected sex? Seriously, WHY? Why put yourself at risk for an incurable STD? Why risk the chance of getting pregnant? Seriously, it's not like I was taught to use a condom, and about pre-cum, and about STD's. It's common sense.

Replies Chiefette Posted at 9:07 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Don't you have a child?   nikki Posted at 2:57 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Because condoms aren't the only form of birth control, and if both you and your partner have been tested for STD's and are both clear, then they're not necassary. However, saying that, they're the most effective way of preventing pregnancy and I wouldn't have sex without one. It's not worth the risks :-/ MamaMockingbird Posted at 12:38 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 12:11 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from MamaMockingbird at 10:47 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.          There is no "safe sex"       ???????       How?       i know they are not hundred percent.       but did it break?       Is there a safe kind?       and If it does break and you know cum went in...       is there any Steps you can take??         I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex.    No, 72 hours. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/emergency-contraception-morning-after-pill-4363.htm Actually it's now shown to be somewhat effective for up to 5 days although of course 3 is MUCH better and as soon as possible is what you're aiming for. My PP leaflet says 72 hours o__O islandgirl Posted at 12:11 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from MamaMockingbird at 10:47 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex"   ???????   How?   i know they are not hundred percent.   but did it break?   Is there a safe kind?   and If it does break and you know cum went in...   is there any Steps you can take??      I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex. No, 72 hours. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/emergency-contraception-morning-after-pill-4363.htm Actually it's now shown to be somewhat effective for up to 5 days although of course 3 is MUCH better and as soon as possible is what you're aiming for. MamaMockingbird Posted at 10:47 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.       There is no "safe sex"    ???????    How?    i know they are not hundred percent.    but did it break?    Is there a safe kind?    and If it does break and you know cum went in...    is there any Steps you can take??     I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex. No, 72 hours. islandgirl Posted at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.  There is no "safe sex" ??????? How? i know they are not hundred percent. but did it break? Is there a safe kind? and If it does break and you know cum went in... is there any Steps you can take?? I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex. GeneCosta Posted at 8:24 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Ideally if you don't want to get pregnant, both sides should be using protection. Condom + Birth control pill/patch is about 99.9997% effective. GeneCosta Posted at 8:21 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex" Apparently, if we are to believe in the Bible, not even abstinence is 100% effective. Goddamn life.   Having sex is like driving a car. You'll never be completely safe, but if you're smart, you'll probably avoid collisions. Micus Posted at 6:51 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 I can't get pregnant. In taking the risk of not using a condom, I at least am responsible for me and my partner. It's not like there's going to be some child created in a fucked up situation. If I fuck up, I get in trouble for it, no one else. That said, there are only select times when I don't use a condom, and it's for very particular reasons and I do it with trust. Except for that one time last year that I was convinced I had HIV for 3 months until I could get tested.. oii. Brainheartlunggut Posted at 6:42 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from crimeinstereo at 2:40 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from RubberTrees at 8:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 9:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.       There is no "safe sex"    It's safer than no using any protection. Most definitely. The chances of getting pregnant while using a condom are very slim. It happens, but very rarely. Oh, it's most definitely better than using nothing at all. It's better to use a condom, or birth control. I'm just saying that neither protects you 100% from pregnancy or STDs. darkness253 Posted at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex" ??????? How? i know they are not hundred percent. but did it break? Is there a safe kind? and If it does break and you know cum went in... is there any Steps you can take?? simplyamazing Posted at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 i dont have sex young22 Posted at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex" she's right that's why they call it safer sex now Monroe Posted at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from RubberTrees at 8:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 9:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.  There is no "safe sex" It's safer than no using any protection. Most definitely. The chances of getting pregnant while using a condom are very slim. It happens, but very rarely. RubberTrees Posted at 6:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 9:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant. There is no "safe sex" It's safer than not using any protection. 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